great to meet you, man
from a young age i've been interested in financial markets, spirituality and self-improvement (dont ask how these mix), in other words - concentrated on myself, introspective, living in some sort of a mental shell. Also, the conversational tone was too formal and serious.
I too have had this exact same sticking point - i was able to open and keep the girl interested but there wasnt any sexual spark, many times i've been friendzoned.
what did i change about myself to improve this quickly - I focused on being more relaxed and not giving a sh*t, just amusing myself. How? I watched many comedy shows like the office, its always sunny in philadelphia, friends, modern family, HIMYM etc etc wrote down every good line, tried imitating jestures and facial expressions. Then read a few books on writing jokes and improvisation. Now i was able to tease the hell out of girls, totally amusing myself and actually not caring about the outcome. This is seriously important - if you are dependent on the outcome (kiss, sex, relationship), they WILL catch up on it, they WILL sense it. Once I stopped caring what will happen, BOOM, girls started chasing me
Also, probably a good idea will be to raise your testosterone levels a bit (read Tim Ferris' The 4-hour body on this one), sign up for some more aggressive martial art and generally hang out more with bad guys. Also did a lot for me - i built confidence, become more Alpha-like, was able to let go and joke around all the time
So good luck, man, wish you a great journey
