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| Author: | showtime8-24 [ Thu Mar 14, 2013 11:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hey guys, Showtime here. |
Good afternoon everyone, hope your days are going as smoothly as your respective games. I just made my account here and felt that I needed to share who I am and what I'm doing here, in order to feel more accepted by the community. I'm 21 years old. I'm tall and good-looking, and no I'm not here to brag. It's hardly even half the game, but that is something you guys have knowledge of already. I made an account here because lately I haven't been feeling smooth at all when it comes to women. In fact I feel like I have lost a lot of my confidence when it comes to picking up women. I don't even know why, it's not like something happened that has affected my confidence. I won't lie, usually I'm great at picking up women at a social setting, such as a bar or a club. There are even times where she'll approach first and well...only an idiot would mess that up. There are many times where I'd be in a club or a bar, and a women will catch my eye, sort of give me that look, like "come over here and talk to me!" and I will, and it will all work out. Either that or she's thinking, "damn that guy is too tall!" I'm 6'5", by the way. But damn, lately...I don't know what it is, my confidence is at an all-time low, either that or someone has been messing with my vitamins! In terms of my background in PUA, I've read Magic Bullets, twice. I realize I still need to read The Game. I plan to. In joining this forum, I am hoping to get my confidence with women back. I am hoping to read posts that relate to me and hear the answers from some very knowledgeable posters. Thank you all for reading, it's much appreciated. |
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| Author: | Smiley X [ Fri Mar 15, 2013 10:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Hey guys, Showtime here. |
Nice to meet you, Showtime. I'm new here, too, and I have confidence issues. Oh, and I'm 20, so we're in a relatable age range. Anyway, I was given advice on here about confidence saying that it is not a matter of whether or not you have it, but a matter of mastering it. We all have that confidence within us, we just have to know how to bring it out. I'm not sure if this will work for you or not but something that I like to do to try to build up some confidence is go out with some friends and just say "Hi" to random strangers. Get high-fives from random strangers that you walk past. Purposely put yourself in some awkward situations to make yourself laugh (some examples: I will randomly stop in front of strangers with my arms out waiting for them to hug me, or I might walk up to a girl that is walking in front of me and just grab her hand and start walking with her). For me, personally, this helps give me that mindset of "I don't care, I'm having fun". Of course, some of these depend on where you are at, too. They work well highly populated areas like malls. Like I said, you're situation might be kinda different so I'm not sure how much this applies to you, but it helps me sometimes. Hope I helped a little! |
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