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Author:  abdou [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 1:08 pm ]
Post subject:  hello guys i hate friend zone
hey i guys almost my whole life i ve been dealing with girl who friend zone me then i tried se hard to get out of it but unfortunatly i doesnt work , now i met a girl on facebook she lives almost 3 miles from my house , i think she didn't friend zone i neg her and she likes it i talk to her in the phone , but when things got serious and i asked her to date me she said she needs sometime , almost 2 week passed and we didnt talk on that subject since . but i think after i said that i startes showin interest and since that time we didnt talk those long conversation full of heart and stuff now i need a plan or a strategy to get her heart or only to get her to meet me !
Author:  Jotage [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 1:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hello guys i hate friend zone
Hello and welcome to the forums!
I'm also new here, so I'll try and give you some of my thoughts (more experienced people, feedback is most welcome!)

So this girl friendzones you and you move on- GOOD!
How long have you been talking to her online and on the phone before you actually mentioned dating?
Maybe you've come on a bit too strong too quickly, maybe the girl has recently ended a relationship and is not yet feeling too confortable in advancing so much so quickly. Talking on the internet is a bit harder since you don't have the actual vision of her actions and expressions.

Try not coming on too strong again, first ask her to go down for a cup of coffee or the park or something, just so you two can actually meet. Keep it light and funny, make her feel confortable and dig in to her likings/hobbies and build up something from there carefully watching her body language to determine how she responds.

Hope I helped and for the experienced people evaluating, hope I didn't mess up :lol:
Author:  abdou [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 1:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hello guys i hate friend zone
i ve been talking to her for maybe 6 months but we didnt talk that much until this last month , i didnt make any move until she started showin some interest like callin me a "jerk" for the neggin , sending me pics that she wouldnt post on facebook " not naked but showing tights " . and she said come to marry me now " she was being sarcastic " i replied why dont we go on a date then we ll talk about marriage "while being sarcastic too ".
since that moment when she almost rejected me i felt like she's tryin avoid me and afraid !
Author:  Jotage [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hello guys i hate friend zone
Yeah the "Let's go out and talk about marriage" thing in my not expert opinion was a bit too over aggressive.

Whenever being sarcasting through instant messaging make sure to leave it clear that youre actually just being sarcastic and doesn't really mean it. The way i see it it makes girls settle cuz they know you're just playing along.

Seems to me now that you're going to have to start over, maybe tell her you're sorry if that made her feel unconfortable and that it was not your aim, just to follow along the joke. From there, make your way back to talking and use negging only when you're absolutely sure she just want to joke around, with smileys on the messages and everything.

When everything has come back to normal again, make it clear you want to invite her all just for some talking and get to know eachother face to face and go from there, don't push it on the date, let her feel confortable around you first. Hope I'm helping you here so far.
Author:  abdou [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hello guys i hate friend zone
yesterday i was showin to her that i'm not feeling good because she dont answer right away and i told her that talkin to her make me feel good and afterwards she replied if you need me call me . and she asked me to call her that night , i did call 2 times she didnt answer and i called today she didn't answer even though she was online on facebook i told her that i am not a freakin robot and i have emotion and she should be more polite then she said that she didnt feel like talkin thats why she didnt answer.
another failure i guess !
Author:  Jotage [ Sat Mar 09, 2013 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: hello guys i hate friend zone
Give her some time, she may be either busy or still hurt.
But there are many others out there too! if she's treating you like that you can just move on
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