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| Author: | david07 [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 2:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | why did I just find this site today? |
Well I feel the tips on this site will serve me well, complete novice at this. From reading a few posts I hear a lot of people discussing the failures/successes at gaming and I have come to a realisation that I cannot relate to many of those experiences simply because I am not attempting to open. Why is this? Well, I think the fear of failure/rejection is causing me to over analyse every approach situation and ultimately come up with a reason not to approach. This is obviously a self defence mechanism. I feel the only way I can overcome this programming will be to approach without expectations and try and have fun with it. By removing the expectation for successful approach I feel I might be able trick that part of my brain that kicks in and tries to protect me from getting hurt. I am under no illusions that this will be easy, so if you have taken the time out to read this far, and know of any techniques geared towards this, I will appreciate if you can point me in the right directions. In the meantime, rather than waiting idly, I will be attempting to approach just for the sake of approaching, and also embracing rejection and chalking it down to experience gaining. Also, as I said I am novice so if there is any fundamental flaw in my logic again pls let me know. |
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