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Author:  lidsfitteds [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Hey, new guy here
So I'm pretty new to the whole thing.
Anyway I got a question, when trying to talk to a random girl on the street(or anywhere else) what would be a good approach?
I usually just say Hi/Hey and try to start a convo.
But would it be better if I bumped into the girl and said sorry and try to start a conversation from there, or...?
Any ideas
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Mar 05, 2013 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
Quote:
So I'm pretty new to the whole thing.
Anyway I got a question, when trying to talk to a random girl on the street(or anywhere else) what would be a good approach?
I usually just say Hi/Hey and try to start a convo.
But would it be better if I bumped into the girl and said sorry and try to start a conversation from there, or...?
Any ideas
Using some type of opener that asks her opinion on something is my personal favorite. It is very easy to transition off and it doesn't give her a chance to say no. The opener doesn't really mean so much, its how you present yourself and what you are saying. There are several different types of openers, however, if you are just starting, pick a few that you like and make them work for your own personal style. When you approach a woman, what you say doesn't really matter at first, it is the judgement she is making on your value... So a couple things from your post:

1. If you are going to bump into her, that works sometimes... but don't say sorry. Making an excuse for your own existence is going to turn her off instantly. In her eyes, you saying sorry is immediately lowering your value below hers. Women seek out a man who brings value to her life. Find out what values you bring to a woman and make sure you convey them. Remove the word sorry from your vocabulary. Don't be sorry about anything you do. Everything you do, every move you make has a reason behind it. Say something like "damn you're always in the way :P" and smile and IMMEDIATELY go into what ever story you want to tell her.

2. Women love when you observe things about their personality. They want to know and feel that you want to get to know her as a person, not a vagina. Once you immediately transition into your convo, pay attention to her and her mannerisms and don't be afraid to say things. The idea behind it is that you are fun and playful about it... Not a dick.


One step at a time! :)
Author:  lidsfitteds [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 3:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
So if I try the bump thing, what do I say instead of sorry?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Thu Mar 07, 2013 8:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
Quote:
So if I try the bump thing, what do I say instead of sorry?
Say something like "damn you're always in the way " and smile and IMMEDIATELY go into what ever story you want to tell her.

To get good at this, you must become somewhat of a bullshit artist lol
Author:  Rocio [ Fri Mar 08, 2013 3:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
HEllo all, I am Rocio from Australia and i am new to this forum. I must say hi and hello first then start my conversation. Because i don't know her. I f i knw then i can hug her first and all like then then start my conversation.
Author:  lidsfitteds [ Fri May 03, 2013 12:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
This post is pretty old but thanks for the advice guys.
Author:  ex-pua-bruno [ Mon May 06, 2013 6:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Hey, new guy here
Quote:
So I'm pretty new to the whole thing.
Anyway I got a question, when trying to talk to a random girl on the street(or anywhere else) what would be a good approach?
I usually just say Hi/Hey and try to start a convo.
But would it be better if I bumped into the girl and said sorry and try to start a conversation from there, or...?
Any ideas
Hey man,

Based on my own experience from the field and also based on my lessons learned from all my trials and errors, struggles and failures, I would warmly recommend that you simply focus on what really turns you on in the woman you want to approach and then go ahead and let her know that.

In other words, always try to be congruent with what you really feel about the woman you want to approach and the right woman will love you for that.

Finally, to better understand my tip and what exactly I mean here, I suggest that you read my latest post (my reply to King Bandit) by clicking on the following link:
completely-new-to-the-pua-scene-vt161756.html

Hope this helps.

Bruno
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