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| Author: | Vbacon [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 11:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Giving my number...Good or Bad?? |
Hey Guys! I'm new to the PUA forum and I would appreciate it if I could get feed back. Thanks. Well today, before I became a member, I decided to make it a habit of speaking to a woman everyday, as many as possible. I go to college, just so you know what my SPAM is, and before I left school I had been reading a book and noticed a sweet, pretty looking girl walk in and sit not to far from where I was sitting. My HB rating would be a 6 or 7. To get to the point, before I left the area I tried out a pick up line that I read some time ago, the situation went like this. ME: Hey There! HER: Hey! ME: May I ask you a question? HER: Sure! ME: Do you like Gifts? HER: Sure? ME: Well Here - handing her my number in a folded piece of paper - see you around. HER: Bye -now looking down periodically She smiled and looked at me the entire time and had accepted my number. Is what I want to know is if it was a mistake to hand her MY number instead of going through normal/default introductory procedures. Thanks Everyone! |
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| Author: | Entouraged [ Mon Mar 04, 2013 11:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving my number...Good or Bad?? |
Why didn't you have a real conversation, tell her more about yourself. Talk about your passions, see what hers are, see if she matches the personality and traits you are looking for. Qualify her and then show her you are interested and like those things about her (if you actually do), play some push/pull. Have some fun bro. Don't just have a 30 second interaction. What is a number. Its a damn number nothing more nothing less. A number is merely a tool (for PUA) to confirm the date, or get a day 2. That is IT! Only use the number to get a date, keep it short sweet and flirtatious. |
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| Author: | Vbacon [ Wed Mar 06, 2013 5:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving my number...Good or Bad?? |
That is some very good advice, But be honest it was more of an exercise to help me gradually dissipate my approach anxiety, or nervousness since it isn't that severe. I know I, more or less, messed up the interaction and/or any chances with her, but my intention was to help myself over come the fear of approaching strangers. I've done some studying and research and had really figured out that I have nothing to loose! These approaches are simple and easy and I should have nothing to be afraid of. Also I learned of things to say and a few calm introductions that show my social dominance and my DHV. In regards to the number, I had been wondering weather it was a good or bad thing for the PUA to hand out HIS number, since I had never come across the topic, I understand that it is just a "Tool" but it was just a moment of uncertainty. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Entouraged [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 1:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving my number...Good or Bad?? |
Listen you say it almost at the end, a number is just a tool, if you want to give it out cause you just want to do it, than fucking do it. Who cares what any other PUA says, as long as you are consistent with your mind and actions that is all that matters. Also cause I am a little douche with grammar, I'm going to help you out a bit, its whether not weather. Fuck I said it, dont kill me. But seriously, point of me saying that sentence was because I just wanted to, do I care if you think I am a grammar nazi. Yes, mainly because I am Jewish. Do I really care. Yea actually I do fuck you. But seriously do I. If you can't tell there is a bit of humour in this reply well then... Point is do what you fucking want. As long as you really want to do it and you are enjoying the moment so will she. (In all honesty, so will everyone, guys girls, old young, everyone bro. Just be yourself - oh G-d what a cliche line - I feel like the theme of a shitty disney movie) |
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| Author: | .Sage. [ Sat Mar 16, 2013 2:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Giving my number...Good or Bad?? |
Quote: That is some very good advice,
But be honest it was more of an exercise to help me gradually dissipate my approach anxiety, or nervousness since it isn't that severe. I know I, more or less, messed up the interaction and/or any chances with her, but my intention was to help myself over come the fear of approaching strangers. I've done some studying and research and had really figured out that I have nothing to loose! These approaches are simple and easy and I should have nothing to be afraid of. Also I learned of things to say and a few calm introductions that show my social dominance and my DHV. In regards to the number, I had been wondering weather it was a good or bad thing for the PUA to hand out HIS number, since I had never come across the topic, I understand that it is just a "Tool" but it was just a moment of uncertainty. Thanks! It's bad. Very bad. A guy giving a girl his number (Or any gift before sex) is the sign of an AFC. A PUA is a world apart from AFCs because we don't follow conventional guy myths about females. While you may not having anything to lose, you might as well practice the right ways of Pick up. |
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