Hi folks
Another UK fella who's getting back off the shelf and trying again. Recently lost my Fiance which was kinda hard to take, so after a couple of weeks of trying to get over it I decided it was time to sort my stuff out.
I first heard of 'The Game' a few years ago before I met my ex and it was using some of the 'be confident' 'it's all about her mind' stuff that won her over. I had a bit of an advantage - we'd know each other since we were teenagers so that made the intro's less awkward. All I had to do was persuade her I was worth a risk.
That's when I fucked up - I got complacent in the relationship, it lost it's spark, she got bored and found a more exciting life elsewhere. However, her life isn't now more exciting, it's gone down the pan. The grass is always greener eh!
I've never been terribly lucky with women, and before I read some of the stuff on here and in books I put it all down to my looks - I have a physical disability, my spine is bent up, I'm deaf, use a wheel chair or crutches. So I was always in the frame of mind that why was I even worth a second look.
Then I saw a few posts on here about Sean and I was sold. I know what I have to do and I will achieve it. So I set up a dating profile for the time being - using some notes from here and my own mind I'm hoping it generates a bit of success.. But here's the thing.
Do I mention my disability on my profile.. I think from my pictures there are a few hints - you can see some crutches in one or two - and my ear aids in others.. It's one thing I've always found tricky - are you totally up front from the start, how do you drop it into conversation.. I'm really against leaving it till the first meet up to 'surprise' her with it - that would be unfair on both of us.
I'm also pretty quiet - so I struggle in clubs - I'm thinking day game would be better, you can meet a high quality of girl in libraries and other such places where it's quiet and easy to talk. it also makes the approach easier as she's seen the disability coming straight at her. no hidden stuff - wysiwyg.
Other than that - Hi look forward to chatting with you all
time for me to get back on the horse and start again.
