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I down my snakebite and black as I stand I burp thankful I didn't do it in the presence of those beautiful women!
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| Author: | KickingkIng [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 1:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
Hello guys Tonight I went out with the knowledge of the game and how it works being a complete nervous wreck around stunning women I only ever shagged ok or ugly women as that is what I thought I was worth. But after discovering the community I set myself on a path to get good with HB eight and above. Tonight me my equally nervous friend set out with the humble goal to approach two beautiful women with a simple you look fucking gorgeous I just had to come and meet you. While sat there at the bar radiating nervous awkward energy everywhere me and my friend who I shall call desert for the moment drank our first pint ( this was after driving everywhere look for a place that was pact full of gorgeous women) I was discussing with him how it says in the books DVDs to not think and go and say what is on you mind. I see two beautiful ladies hb8 my heart erupts with emotion I walk towards them couple are in my way stalling me and taking my moment Of courage allowing me to think that they are way to hot to be interested In me so I flop it and head back to my table tail between my legs. I sink another pint then desert gets up shaking approaches the two hb8 blond and tells them they look gorgeous then walks back to my table with the wildest grin i feel a whole different aura about him he has accomplished what he set out to do ( I know it's a very humble mission but for the likes of us it was massive speaking to beautiful intimidating women) I am so proud of him the girls leave in there place one hb 9 and one hb ten replace them in there seats. Before I notice them two old women come and start chatting up desert his emotion and happiness are plain to see so women ( ok ugly old women) are opening him. That has never happened!! I down my snakebite and black as I stand I burp thankful I didn't do it in the presence of those beautiful women! As I walk over I interrupt the conversation my heart in pounding at the moment I say ' I know this is random but I noticed you both from my seat I felt compelled to tell you you both look fucking phenomenal I just had to meet you.'they both light up with huge grin then introduce themselves as Dane and April as I wait for the horrible reaction of them shouting or something they ask what my name is I reply. I then say as honest is how I should be according to the direct dating DVDs. 'that was the extent of my charm for the moment as I learning how to do this. If I see you in six months you bet that I will be approaching you both again and maybe I will be that good that you will buy me a drink smiling sheepishly.' The hb9 jumped up laughing pulled my arm towards her (at which point I drop my drink all over the floor) 'it's very cute that you think you need help to talk to pretty girls.you did fine just then' to which I reply 'a week ago I would of just sat in my seat staring at you aggressively wondering why you were out of my league' she replies 'wow if you made that much of an improvement in a week you better come and find me in six months' I laughed then leave the table. Although you may think what Is this guy on about all he did was speak to a girl. That is so massive for me. Well all I am trying to get across is you brain is fucked at the beginning of the journey to becoming a pua. The reason why your brain thinks instantly that that girl is so fucking fit! Is because it is what the girl wants to hear ignore the thoughts that come after they are bullshit say what you think that is what I have taken from today to all those who are new like me the first is defiantly the worst so good luck and be brave. Kickingk Going to bed feeling like the happiest man alive! |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 2:31 am ] |
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Good job man and your lucky to have a wing-man right there with you as well, it will make the journey much more fun. Remember to set some hard, work based, goals for yourself for approaching and opening to start, then move on to time hanging in set. Your humility is refreshing. |
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| Author: | KickingkIng [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 12:40 pm ] |
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Thanks for the advice. We are going down to cardiff this weekend with the aim of doing so many approaches we get rid of the AA and when we walk into a place the first thing we do is approach confidently with our direct opener if we reach this goal we are then going to try and hold a set for a couple of minute being natural ( this point probably nervous fools still ha!) Would you recommend any other goals to set this weekend? KickingK |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:39 pm ] |
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just setting a number goal(s), otherwise thats an ambitious agenda. Let us know how it goes |
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| Author: | The Shark [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 8:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
Quote: I down my snakebite and black as I stand I burp thankful I didn't do it in the presence of those beautiful women!
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 10:29 pm ] |
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The thing I don't get is this: Why be a PUA if you can instead live Epically? |
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| Author: | KickingkIng [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:50 pm ] |
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Quote: The thing I don't get is this: Why be a PUA if you can instead live Epically?
PUA was the wrong word to use I now just want to be good at approaching women and finding what is right for me. I have definatly reached that goal working with a guy called Ryan helped me raise it so many levels the guy above is now a distant memory 
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| Author: | Mr. Marville [ Wed Jan 23, 2013 8:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
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While sat there at the bar radiating nervous awkward energy everywhere
Awesome.
Quote: you may think what Is this guy on about all he did was speak to a girl.
Indeed.
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| Author: | evolizzygrant [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 2:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
What counts is you tried 
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| Author: | ian_mezza [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 4:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
It's always good to have a wingman by your side when you are doing approaches for the first few times. |
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| Author: | KickingkIng [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 11:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
Quote: Quote:
While sat there at the bar radiating nervous awkward energy everywhere
Awesome.
Quote: you may think what Is this guy on about all he did was speak to a girl.
Indeed.I'm just sharing no need to be sarcastic. |
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| Author: | KickingkIng [ Mon Jan 28, 2013 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: As a complete nervous wreck my first approach |
Quote: It's always good to have a wingman by your side when you are doing approaches for the first few times.
I would of never done this without a wingman in the beginning quite happy to do it by myself now though.
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