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| New here! AFC and ONEITIS. https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=1&t=148992 |
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| Author: | PUA-InTraining [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 3:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New here! AFC and ONEITIS. |
Hello, I’d like to introduce myself. I became interested in the “art of pickup” in college when I began watching David DeAngelo’s videos on the subject. It totally changed how I viewed women, and with a lot of practice, I eventually figured out a game that worked for me. I was eventually able to F-close a different girl almost every weekend without even trying. Prior to that, I couldn’t even talk to girls. I discovered that I could even play off my “shy” quiet personality, and girls just ate it up. I was boisterous and loud on the outside, but quiet and reserved on the inside. I think this introduced a mysterious quality about me that girls just craved to know. Fast-forward several years, and I am getting out of a three year relationship. I am now AFC and have a serious case of ONEITIS. I realize what I have to do, and that’s GFTOW. I’ve made a commitment to myself to get the old me back, but a better version. There is so much more to learn about pickup that I didn’t even know existed (NLP, KINO, MM, etc...). This forum is a fantastic resource. My strength has historically been the Gunwitch method, though I didn’t know such a method officially existed until a few weeks ago. It wasn’t until I started reading it and realized that this was pretty much my game, I just didn’t know it at the time. I was happy to see someone verbalize it, because it really struck a chord within me. I do have a disclaimer: I do want my ex-gf back, but I think it needs to happen after I find myself again. She told me that she still loves me, but she’s just not attracted to me anymore (and to be honest, I understand why - I am AFC). She’s currently dating some older guy (10 years older than her), which she’s told me she thinks is eventually going to end, she’s kind of just waiting for it to happen. She’s told me that if she wasn’t seeing this guy, that she’d be back together with me, and that I need to play hard to get. I realize what the problem is, its just what to do about it that I am trying to figure out. Some of the things I hope to learn from this forum are 1) protocols when interacting with my ex (e.g. She wants to hang out, what do I do?; when does “no contact” apply?; how to play hard to get; etc...), and 2) questions about the different techniques or methods in general with women. If the answer really is just GFTOW, then i may just need to hear it a few times. Ultimately, I seek to become a better person through this experience. I want to better understand the female mind, and be able to form deep meaningful relationships with women, and to teach them things about themselves that they never knew existed. And I want to get laid, a lot. Thanks! |
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