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| Author: | AJ25 [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Just finished The Game.. |
Thought it'd be interesting to sign up here to get involved in the community, pick up tips, read about other guys' progress, and track my own, if I make any. The Game intrigued me because PUAs were something I'd known about for some years, and they sounded interesting, but I couldn't 'get into them' due to the dubious marketing of a lot of them. Many of them couldn't look like they were trying to scam more, if they tried.. But anyway, after reading The Game, I at least have a good reason to believe someone like me could genuinely make progress at being with women. So far I've slept with 2, had sex 3 times and I'm 25. One of the reasons for the lack of sex is my 'oneitis' (?). I've been pursuing the same girl for 3 years and have only gone as far as kissing her a few times. Going forward, I'd probably like to have casual sex with a few women and get into a relationship in the next few years. Preferably with the girl I'm 'obsessed' with, but maybe that won't work out. I dunno. The first steps I think I'm going to take are to read about 'text game', and one of Richard Bandler's early books (forget the name of it), and maybe Mystery's first book if it has any info on text/phone game in it. I'm in ok shape, but I'll probably join a gym later this month. Meeting women in public is something I need to do more of, and I'm taking steps to do that. Although, as far as my ability to interest women goes, making a good first impression, isn't a problem. My problem seems to lie in exciting them. I got the phone numbers of 3 attractive women so far this year, but they all lost interest and stopped talking to me, basically. I made them laugh, was honest and open with them, had good convos, but it wasn't enough. Being yourself isn't enough, at least not for the majority. I don't even agree with the line about being your best self. I think you need to learn to be cynical, put on a fascade, and disconnect your emotions from the process. At least that's what those who appear to have success out of this community appear to do. Dunno if anyone will reply, but if anyone does and knows any sources for good info on 'text game', I'd be very grateful to hear them. |
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| Author: | johnbonjovi [ Thu Aug 09, 2012 7:34 pm ] |
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Hey man, as far as text game goes it probably isn't what you want to do at this point. If you are just getting started I recommend you just start approaching. Texting isn't going to push any major boundaries which when your first starting out you need to do. Obviously its a lot harder than it sounds but leave texting just as a method to get a face to face with a girl 
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| Author: | AJ25 [ Sun Aug 12, 2012 9:29 pm ] |
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Thanks John. I could do with getting over some of my dread of approaching. But for now I think I'd benefit most from learning things about what to do after meeting a girl, getting her details etc. SPAM I'm speaking to a girl I've known for a while, who I'm going to give a personal job reference for. We're getting on well and she shows iois, but.. I'm kinda struggling to know what to do to excite her to take things further. |
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