That's cool you've shared your story sanjay! Respect for the weight loss! I am sure you will make it
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| Author: | sanjayb381 [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 12:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | My journey from AFC to PUA |
Hi everyone, my name is Sam and I am 21 years old and I've stayed most of my life in Dubai. I recently got to know about the game. I am a shy kinda guy. About 4.5 years back I had no friends and I used to be a complete loner. I used to spend most of my time on computer learning something or the other about hacking and different stuff. I weighted 115 kg and my height is 160cm. Thinking about a female friend or a gf was never a huge concern that time, I just wanted some friends in my life that time, didn't matter guys or girls. I thought people and specially girls like guitarists so I started learning guitar, I started playing and I got averagely good at it but could never gather the courage to play infront of anyone and impress them a lil( except my mom.) Then I thought if I were slim I would have confidence, and i joined a gym. It took me a year to get to 68kgs form 115 kgs and I can confidently say I had a beach body with nice abs too lol, I went from 0 in looks to 8. I became more confident about my looks. With that confidence I earned 4 friends from my class in school ( total lame guys, virgins till this day ). Then I thought If I stay alone without my parents, I might learn about life a bit more and open up a bit with my attitude. Then I went to india for 3 years for my bachelor course in comp science (expecting I would get a lot of boobies and cool friends in college). There were a tones of HBs and cool people but.... they were just not with me. well the positive part, I did loose my virginity and had sex with 6 different girls in 3 years but those girls I never liked, all the girls were below 5. There was a classmate who was a 9 and somehow I became a very close friend of here. I had a huge crush on her since the moment I saw her in my first year and in my 3rd year I finally spoke to her through a friend. After chatting for 5 mins she asked me "are you new in this college, never seen you before". I literally got a heart attack after that. She was my oneitis and she still is. After knowing each other for 9 months as close friends and me trying to get out of the friend zone, I kept looking creepy to her and finally lost her completely. At the end of my last semester I met a serious Bike accident while racing someone. I had to undergo 2 major surgeries on my right shoulder and right knee. I had come back to Dubai. By 12 weeks after surgery I had normally started going out. This whole time I was getting physically better every day and staying at home alone whole time was also getting me worse socially as well. I have also gained a lot of weight recently. I felt that I got in a total looser state once again. The best thing that happend to me while I was on bed. It was I got a book which literally gave a life changing path, every one on this forum knows that book, it's "The Game". After reading the game, I went through a lot of books about PUA while I was still on bed. After some time I was able to go out to sarge and I went to the closest mall every day. I used to spend 1 hour minimum every day and for the first 3 days I came home with zero approaches, I could not even OPEN a single set. On my forth day almost least bothered about going out, I still went out thinking about I'll not come home until I've opened at least 2 sets. That day I approached single 1 set and came home. I was not upset today for not fullfiling my target, at least I had approached someone. I was happy and boosted about next coming days. I was following the book called "rules of the game". I kept sarging every day and On my day 14 I finally got a perfect number close of a HB 7. I called her later that day, here responses were very positive. After talking 2 minutes on the phone she invited me to have coffee with her. I was least bothered about the coffee, I just wanted to check if my game played was good enough and does she answere the phone. Today was that day 14. I finally did something which I just read in the book and saw only on YouTube some people do it. It's nothing big, people do k closes and f closes as well but, today it really feels like I've achieved something measurable and I need to keep doing it to have better results..... I was so boosted so just thought of sharing it with you guys. Thank you for reading, I hope this was not too boring.... Cheers everyone [/img] |
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| Author: | Diako [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 12:55 am ] |
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I have enjoyed and it gave me hope to do the same thing. Respect |
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| Author: | sunny89 [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 7:10 am ] |
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That's cool you've shared your story sanjay! Respect for the weight loss! I am sure you will make it
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 7:26 am ] |
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describe to me how do you want your life to be like ? |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 12:07 pm ] |
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Welcome to the Forums! You have taken the biggest steps, the rest if just getting yourself into a routine and continuing to push yourself everyday! I look forward to seeing your posts/comments around the boards. Peace... |
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| Author: | Gemini11235 [ Tue Jul 17, 2012 5:33 pm ] |
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Great story. Our of the shattered world of being bedridden you've emerged a new man. That's a comic book story right there haha. |
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| Author: | sanjayb381 [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 11:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | To nikAFC and gemini |
First I want my life to be like one girl friend that I really like and lots of friends who know me and some cool couple of close friends with whom I hangout every week. Me and my girl friend and 2-3 more couples with us our close friends hanging out every week on the beach or malls or anything and evenings in some cool club. That's it and work in the week days..... I guess Gemini thinks its a story is fake, may be it seems like I don't know. I wish there was option of uploading pics here or if I don't know please you guys can help me. I would have uploaded some of my before after pics. I try to go out everyday now for atleast one number close and then come back home. I just wanna get 30 number closes then I'll go try the game in clubs. |
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| Author: | Gemini11235 [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 3:06 pm ] |
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My bad for not being clear. I believe your story, its not far fetched. That was my attempt to put in perspective your transformation. Lots of people go through something tragic in order for them to gain a new state of mind. Like a supper hero. In my case, I and a few others, failed to stop a girl from killing herself. That was my eye opening experience. And agreed. Create and awesome social group! |
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| Author: | down [ Wed Jul 18, 2012 4:23 pm ] |
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How do you deal with the local Dubai laws which prohibit premarital sex? |
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| Author: | sanjayb381 [ Thu Jul 19, 2012 12:16 am ] |
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There is no such law about not talking to girls on the street, taking them on dates or taking them in a hotel. You definitely need to have some contacts for the hotel room. As I told I've just started getting numbers, yestarday I got 2 and today none, so I haven't reached the major stages yet. Rite now I am looking for some more PUAs in dubai... To sarge along |
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