So I don't consider myself a PUA and I doubt if I will ever get to that point, but I think one thing I do want is to be better equipped to tap into my inner confidence. I'm a normal guy: I like sports, I'm in law school, and I enjoy having a good time.

I figure I may as well start out with a question for all of you. There is a girl I would like to take out. There are several hang ups (at least for me there are). She lives out of state. I know her family and I am pretty sure she knows I want to ask her out next time she comes up based on things others have told members of her family. We have never really talked and I feel stupid asking her dad for her number. She comes into town on occasion and could end up back here permanently in the near future. But we won't really run into each other.

What should my first/next move be?