Hello.
This is my first post!
I am a total pua newbie
I have covered most of the theories (Gambler, Mystery, Tao of Badass, Deangello).
But I have almost no field practice.
I must admit, all my my life (now I am 33) I was a total BETA male.
I was obeying to women. When they told me that they are considering to throw me away, I was CRYING and begging NOT to leave me:)
The things are much better now. I have read all the materials. Women no more bossing me around. I have changed my inner believes thus my bodylanguage is looking very dominant (I took president Vladimir Putin bodylanguage as an example, no kidding
).I am ok looking tall guy.
When I am approaching women, I "know" they are attracted , maybe because I have this dominant bodylanguage and flirting smile. They are smiling to me, qualifying themselves ,grooming they hair. So the begining of the game is very ok.
There is an attraction. But one/two minutes after, they are going away.
The first issue, I have some inner need to brag to women that I am Software Project Manager. I think this is called self qualifying and trying to sell myself. If I am not wrong, this kills attraction. The other issue I have, is that that there is a point that I have nothing interesting to say, I am starting to talk about boring things like asking where do you work ... I think maybe this also kills attraction, maybe not ?
By the way, One thing that I see that when I wear nice shining shoes and elegant shirt I get much more playfull smiles. Does this means that I should not wear my nike shoes anymore
I welcome any suggestion. Thank you