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Author:  semenload [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:54 pm ]
Post subject:  The first PUA from India......

Well, I'm sure no one expected a PUA from India... well here's one finally. I haven't found any myself....

Started off at 20, when I found a copy of Ross Jeffries' book. Not exactly a fan of Ross, though it got me curious about "The Game". Not a regular practitioner, but do make it a point to sarge at least once a month on average.

Frankly, I'm not sure how much each of you derives benefit from the Game, but it does loads for making you feel good about yourself.....

After all, we all spend nine months trying to get out, and then spend the rest of our lives trying to get back in...... well, we guys kinda stopped needing to keep "trying"!!!

Peace

Author:  chio [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:09 pm ]
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Welcome to the forum. There are PUAs worldwide. The amoujnt of them is increasing daily!

Author:  AyBayBay [ Wed Jan 02, 2008 7:07 pm ]
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Welcome, it is funny because I am Indian as well and then whenever I do end up watching an Indian movie it is sooo like the typical fairytale setting when in reality you know it would never happen like that.

Author:  semenload [ Thu Jan 03, 2008 9:44 am ]
Post subject:  Agree with that, Yopua.

Thanks for the welcome note, bros. And Yopua, that indian film tale is so true..... but then those are just films.... you gotta play the game to get a grip on reality and make reality a fairytale.... :-D

Its just that the bitch shields here are not so much out of ego but rather out of conservativeness....... but they're easy to break!! I usually have a tougher time getting through the Anti Slut Def. That's about doubly thick out here..... just my observation.

One more thing I've observed, is that you can just # close pretty regularly, but you gonna get to the * or the f only after a few meetings. That's just how they are out here, man!!! If you can do a *-close or f-close in the 1st meet, then man, did you get a major easy one!!!

Peace

Author:  attraxion [ Tue Feb 12, 2008 6:39 am ]
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Hey, man, am I happy to spot you :D

I'm an rAFC from Noida, India and am looking to be a PUA in some time. I've tried online sarging a lot, but looking for specific advice on offline sarging in India. You done any of that? In random places like malls and bookstores? Somehow i think girls in india will never talk to strangers like that.

Any comments much appreciated.

Attraxion.

Author:  DJ_Secret [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 2:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls in India are approachable

Indian here as well, i tried opening up a few girls in a book shop and ended up getting their cell numbers. Its not all that difficult guys, trust me, despite the social stigmas in India. Even i used to have the same notion about girls till recently when i gathered the balls to approach a cutie at a party.

Author:  attraxion [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 6:12 pm ]
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Hey.. Good to read your post, DJsecret.. Your post is gonna help me get rid of those beliefs I have about India..

Just for info, what city are u from? It would be great if you could post your entire experience - how did u open, what did you say, how soon did you get the #close. Even I'm interested in working in bookshops :-)

Author:  ~L.J~ [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 9:29 am ]
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Try introducing yourself as 'semenload' to your next target. Lemme know how that goes.

~ LoveJunkie

Author:  DJ_Secret [ Thu Feb 21, 2008 9:49 am ]
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Well i am from Jaipur and the way it has transformed drastically over the past few years has also transformed the looks of the chics in here (lolz). Well what happened was I was looking up a few books and these two girls started looking for stuff at the same place. I talked to the one a less liked, here it goes:-
Me : (Smiling as always) Hey , do u find this book interesting? I think its a must read.
Her: Really? cool then i guess i must buy it.
Me: (recommend some more cool books to both girls).
Her: Do you come here often? u seem to know everything very well.
Me:yes but i really got to get going, here's my cell number, u need help with books , u found the right guy.
Then we swap numbers and its done. Cool aint it?

Author:  semenload [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 7:31 am ]
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[quote="LoveJunkie"]Try introducing yourself as 'semenload' to your next target. Lemme know how that goes.

~ LoveJunkie[/quote]


Heh heh.... nice one!!! There's a time and place for every kind of DHV, pal. An introduction would not be a good place for this one.......

Sarcasm or jest, thanks for the comment, LJ........ maybe I will work on a good explanation for that one :lol:

Author:  semenload [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 7:39 am ]
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DJ_Secret,

Nice work, pal..... opened the set well!!! You got the #close too!!!

Just a note from my experience.... its better to let her give you her number first or at least ask for yours first!!! The logic would be that she will not just look at you as a "wikipedia" for good books, but a person she might be interested in having a relationship with.

Also try to work on open-ended questions as openers. Eg. what if she replied, "Naah, not interested in that book" to your opening question?? Then you'd have to think on your feet real fast.

Heh heh, but then just getting that # feels good, doesn't it???

Keep it real,

Ecudes

Author:  semenload [ Sat Mar 01, 2008 8:02 am ]
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Attraxion,

Man, I like your nick.... sounds very cool!! Sorry for the delay in answering you!!

First things first, you're not an AFC, not recovering, not converted, nothing!! You're a PUA in training [PUAiT if you like]. As long as you keep even remotely referring to yourself as an AFC, you're never gonna get out of it!!!

Girls are human beings, pal, and human beings have a fundamental need to be socially accepted. So maybe they will be hesitant talking to strangers, but if you show them you are friendly and not dangerous, they'll respond in a friendly way.

The trouble with guys is, and I was also like this once, is that we talk to any woman [other than our moms, I think] with the intention of having sex with her. So no matter what we're talking about, our mind is constantly evaluating how to get her into the nearest bed. That puts a lot of pressure, both on the conversation and majorly on the self confidence. Blame it on our hormones!!! And worse, women sense this very very quickly. They can classify you as a friend or as a creep in exactly 30 seconds!!!

So the thing you have to work on is this. When you talk to a girl, concentrate on the conversation. Concentrate on making friends with her. Smile.... show that you're not dangerous!! It'll work!!

I believe in Noida/Delhi area, most guys are subject to this fault. This causes them to eve-tease, catcall etc. etc. Wouldn't it be great if you can be the guy that girls can have a conversation with, without worrying about whether you have ulterior motives???

And finally, if a girl won't talk to you, don't view it as a personal failure, like as if something is wrong with you!!! Remember: there are no failures, there is only feedback!!!! Analyse what went wrong with the conversation. If you think something you said was erroneous, correct it!!! Its called "improving your game"!! And if the girl was just being a bitch, well then let it go!!! She wasn't worth it anyway!!!

So just keep saying Hi and talking to as many girls as you meet in your daily life. It'll improve your confidence.

Keep it real,

Ecudes

Author:  shiningdead [ Tue Jul 15, 2008 1:20 pm ]
Post subject:  1 more

26yrs
now in Delhi...
basically frm punjab
I am an AFC rather than PUA...
but m enthusiastic to becoming PUA!
But as i am new to delhi, so sarging lonely is kind of difficult...
n disinteresting..
So i was explorin net for partners in crime..
i was lucky n got here....
so if any of u gr8 ppl are interested...
m excited to join u n b ur wing...
n sarge togethr...

:twisted:

Author:  semenload [ Tue Nov 11, 2008 1:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 1 more

[quote="shiningdead"]26yrs
now in Delhi...
basically frm punjab
I am an AFC rather than PUA...
but m enthusiastic to becoming PUA!
But as i am new to delhi, so sarging lonely is kind of difficult...
n disinteresting..
So i was explorin net for partners in crime..
i was lucky n got here....
so if any of u gr8 ppl are interested...
m excited to join u n b ur wing...
n sarge togethr...

:twisted:[/quote]

Cool, man..... If I'm in Delhi, I'll count on you to show me around.... and I'll be your wing too :D

Drop me a line at semenload@yahoo.in

Author:  Cash2 [ Tue Nov 16, 2010 3:36 pm ]
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@semenload : good stuff man !! v indian pua's really need advice attuned to the indian environment and social structure !!

girls are different here and more conservative as you pointed out !!

some of the pua openers and routines don't work her coz they are not suitable to indian setup !!

Will glad to show u around when u are in delhi and sure also learn quite a bit from you !!

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