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Author:  Sbash [ Sat May 26, 2012 10:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Life altering decision

I need advice on whether i should inbox this girl i like. She is in my university and we have a lot of eye contact and i believe she does gives me some indicators of interest. Problem is since i don't have any good mutual friends with her, i can't approach her directly without making it seem weird. So the next best solution i feel is to facebook message her with the content being,

" Hey i didn't want to make it look weird that is why i didnot approach you directly. You seem like an interesting person and i would like to get to know you better, i just hope you don't turn out to be boring :P."

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

Author:  "The Gift" [ Sun May 27, 2012 12:22 am ]
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Puts a lot of pressure on her, and also you. Imagine if you don't get a reply, and you see her again...how awkward will it be?

I'd first make the effort to communicate/open her outside of Facebook first.

Author:  Sbash [ Sun May 27, 2012 12:59 am ]
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We were in class together in the previous semester. Her interest was evident then as well, but she had a boyfriend so i didn't do anything. Plus the university's environment doesn't really give a chance to communicate without making it look weirder unless there is someone to introduce the two of you. I haven't approached a girl since i got here, and really if i want to do this is to start making some motion. Even if i fail, because i don't want to regret not trying rather than failure.

Author:  "The Gift" [ Sun May 27, 2012 7:37 pm ]
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Well maybe not a message like that. Puts A LOT of pressure on here, and seems kind of desperate/needy.

First get conversation going. I'm not really sure what to suggest, you know more about this girl than I.

"Hey, I saw you the other day...you've changed so much since back in blah blah"

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