Hey man,
Welcome. I'm not sure if this is where you'll post your question; I think you should make a new thread to get more views so that more people can answer your questions, but I'll just answer your questions here:
From experience, it does not matter where you came from or where you're at now. What really matters is where you want to go and how you're going to get there. If you let your past hinders your success with women, business, or health you won't be able to go far because you'll always have this limiting belief in the back of your head. If you want the top level girls, you've definitely got to be the top level guy. How do you get there? Well, what's a top level guy look like to you? Are you confident? Are you fun? Do you take care of yourself, meaning do you exercise? Eat right? Groom? Make sure that before you leave the house you look like a fucking MAN? Does your house/apartment/room look like the place of a sexy motherfucker you are destine to become? If you were to look at your lifestyle from a third person point of view, is it the fun, exciting, kinda life style that you wish to live? If you take your time to develop those qualities and are able to answer yes to all of these questions, you'll attract women like nothing. You don't even have to try, they'll just come to you because they truly find you attractive and want to be a part of your life. It's not easy, but when you get your shit together, everything will be easy.
Good luck
