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| Author: | Marino7810 [ Sat May 12, 2012 5:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | New here, trying to grow |
Hey guys, I'm new to the website. This would be my first post and I'd like to tell you guys a little bit about my life and who I am. First off, I'd like to introduce myself, my name is Kevin and I'm currently a junior in High School. I play sports such as football and Lacrosse. I'm also a generally handsome dude. Throughout most of my time in high school I've been generally quiet with very few friends. It wasn't until this year that I realized being quiet wasn't for me, it's just I didn't have any confidence, and I didn't have the right state of mind at the time. Anyways I did a lot of things differently this year, first was this Speech and Debate class I took, tbh this class did wonders for my speaking skills and opened my eyes to a lot of things. I believe this was the first step to changing myself for the better, I also experienced going to a club for the first time in my life which at first was the most nervewrecking thing for me. So anyways I started off the year with a very negative perspective of people around me, yes I wanted to get girls and be the man, but I always thought that girls should come to me and people should want to befriend me instead of me actually taking the initiative of befriending these people. For awhile when people weren't doing this I became extremely frustrated I thought people were judging me and that I could never join the ranks of these so called "popular kids". But as the year progress my mindset slowly began to change, I started realizing the reason for my misfortune was a variety of things wrong with myself first was I wasn't being myself and second was I had no confidence in myself. so slowly but surely I adjusted this mentality of mine and made it more optimistic, and realized I had to make the best of my opportunities. As a result of my changing mentality, I have a whole new wave of friends, yet I still have a lingering problem with talking to girls in my class or in the school, I do believe I can do it and I'm currently working at it, it just feels like I have no idea what to do or say to them, even though I'm a great conversationalist and have developed great speaking skills, I really don't know how to engage girls, cause as far as I've noticed looks can only get you so far. Anyhow I soon looked to books on how to fix this, so I ended up finding "The Game" By Neil Strauss, I havent finished reading the book but I did find it very interesting, so I started doing a little research on Mystery and his legitimacy, I even tryed a few of his methods, they actually worked better than I expected it's just that I havent mastered it, but I definitely saw the potential in this. So anyways I actually stumbled across this fantastic website and community while doing a little research on Mystery, and just thought to myself this could be a very useful tool for me by learning through others experiences and finding out what makes you guys great pick up artists. So I look forward to interacting with you guys, and would love to hear some advice from you all, Thanks. |
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| Author: | ironarm [ Sat May 12, 2012 5:32 pm ] |
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so you,ve got a lot going for you ive posted a few bits on here tonight ( england ) and iam coming up with a lot of you not getting specific so come on mate tell me your stinking points |
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| Author: | Marino7810 [ Sat May 12, 2012 5:58 pm ] |
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Quote: so you,ve got a lot going for you ive posted a few bits on here tonight ( england ) and iam coming up with a lot of you not getting specific so come on mate tell me your stinking points
Haha my bad, I'm new to this whole forum stuff lol. I guess I didn't state my points clear enough. My point is I'm still learning how to be an extroverted person, and one problem I still have is I don't have any girls numbers in my school or even have any one girl I talk to on a daily basis. Regardless of me being good looking I have never built up any relations with a girl, so what I'm getting at is what is a good strategy in getting to know some of these girls, how to play around with them, how to flirt with them, how to get them to come to you, how do I approach them and make them interested in me.
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