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| Author: | Daddyslap908 [ Tue Apr 24, 2012 12:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | New to Pua, Unique Circumstances.. |
So, here I am, and I couldn't be happier to have found this place! Thanks for the read ahead of time! About me: -Circumstances- Up until two months ago, I spent two years completely celibate, and gave no care about talking to girls in anyway. I really started delving into philosophy, science, and music production. I have a lively group of friends, and was around for many, many parties, and plenty of opportunity, but I simply had no care to make any moves sexually. Really anti-social. I wore pajamas everyday, didn't work out and gained a bit of weight. I've slowly started breaking out my shell, and have been making an effort to do a 180 and take control of my potential. I spent so much time thinking, and focusing on intellectual things, that I missed from 19 to 21 (now), the prime time for a guy, and lost a lot of opportunities to learn, but hey, I'm still young. I never really learned game, or "great" social skills, and Aspergers+Inattentive ADD doesn't help. I've been proactive about working out, getting my dress game better, being attentive to cleanliness, and building confidence ever since. -Physical- I'm 5'10", (now) 230 lbs. I have moderate "real" gyno.. I'm looking into options to handle that. I've been told by quite a few people that I'm a good looking guy/ have a great smile and eyes, but, I honestly don't know that myself. Its funny how now that I've started paying attention, I do notice a decent amount of girls eyeing and smiling at me.. I would never smile back, but its obvious I will be now. I wanted to post up two pictures, but I'm not allowed to yet. -Game- The strange thing, is that I DO have game, when it actually comes out of me, and its blows my mind afterwards. Sometimes, I just get a groove where I can straight hook a girl naturally. Here's how it goes from analyzing it: I'm horrible at breaking ice (and cold opening) and getting comfortable initially.. but when I do, its 50/50.. because I need to work on group socializing.. but! when I get the opportunity to chat her up, 1 on 1, and I'm actually interested, I do work somehow! Now that I know some of the terms, I can say I'm a natural at hitting negs/teasing on POINT. I can be very witty. I'll get the girl to laugh and smile constantly, laugh/smile big while calling me an asshole, and get a flushed face. Now, because of my Asperger's, I can do all this, but I can't close... or pick up on body language naturally.. until I think about it after. (this is something I'm working on big time right now with decent success). Meaning, I wasn't entirely sure if the girl was DTF, although in hindsight, she absolutely, positively was. When I was younger in high school, this groove was flawless when it was actually active, because my ego wasn't so neutral as now, and I wasn't as innocent minded, I would just go in blind and win. Example: After getting back out again, this happened recently, and it came to the point the girl was leaning to show cleavage, and bending down "legs-straight ass-up" way to pick things ups, etc, and she even took me to her room.. I was clueless at the moment and starting chatting up about the art in her room instead of closing... she even went to lay down and said "its ok, you can come lay down". I did, and unsure, just fell asleep with her. It was my first "anything" since my 2 year absence, so give me a break, haha. I'm becoming much more aware and think I will pick up on this now. Where I failed: (a little long, but explains a lot about me right now): This girl, I continued meeting, and have been talking to for a little less than 2 months. Half of my game has naturally been on point, I get positive cues like her punching me calling me an asshole while smiling, giving me a grin then a kiss for a clever/witty remark, or saying "I hate youu" with a big ass smile, etc etc. The other half of my game was timid, polite, and beta drenched. Being super/polite nice in bed, taking it slow, being honest and open about my ideologies, etc. So, anywho, we fell into it quick and really really started liking eachother, to the point she wanted me over every night, and I obliged. We did stuff but no sex, said she wanted to wait until we were "legit" as sex has ruined her venues before.. so... in her eyes, I basically went from initial Alpha to a unique, interesting beta.. was no surprise she was still meeting a straight up navy ALPHA (to the tee! Looks, height, body, game, etc) purely for sex, wayyyy above her level, but was developing sincere stable feelings for me( she knew him before me, and happens to live right across the street, is only here for a temporary stay, so go figure. I cant hate the player nor the game!). Being new to all this again, I scrapped it, and ejected with a little disappointment. I'm in no place to succumb to that. It sucked for a day but I shrugged it off with little damage. Even with all my developed insecurities due to inactivity, I know I'm better than that. I'd rather pass, and continue the positive changes and hit the streets with my best game then get caught up in that nonsense. Reminded me of all that I forgot: how females really are, how foolish all the emotion is, and no matter how innocent, chill, etc, a girl is, she's going to get that primal "D" anytime she can. So this really opened up my eyes, I want to be the predator getting what I want, not the sheep chewing on grass scraps while wolves are getting fed. So with all that said, I was led here. Conclusion: Yeah, I may be a strange case in a weird place, but deep down inside, I know I can be an Alpha if I rose up to my inner throne. Those moments when my groove is just impeccable, how natural and easy it is in that "phase"... feels great. With slimming down and getting my body right, taking care of myself and my style, working on my social weaknesses, and solidifying my confidence, I think I'll be ready to storm this city. But yet, baby steps, I have a while to go. Thanks for reading. |
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