Hello friends,
I´m a new member, writing here cause I can´t post to the relationship forum.
I have an ethical issue, I´m about 10 months in a relationship and I don´t feel comfortable anymore.
It´s been a couple of months that my girlfriend because of a SPAM with cortisone she gained about 10kg very fast making her unattractive to her.
Her behavior changed also, she is pushing me to do things for her, gets easily tired, she became much more needy and is too persistent when she asks smt from me. Every time I say no ends to an argument.
We had an argument some time ago and I told her I wanted to break up from her, she produced such an amount of drama calling me in the middle of the night, crying every time that she called me, that she made me feel sorry for that and finally I couldn´t stick to my decision.
I feel tired and I want more free time for myself, but I also don´t want to break her heart, I´m trying to be as polite as possible but sometimes I talk bad to her, I think she is also sad because of that. I understand that she needs support because of her health adventure and also cause she moved to another city 3 hours from here and is new there and doesn´t know so many people, breaking up from her would make her much more sad and I feel I have some responsibility towards her.
Any suggestions? I thought to try to find a new girlfriend, since she freaks out every time I try to break up from her at least I can continue my life this way.
thanks for your help
