Hi guys, I'm 26 yo live in Amsterdam. Struggle with shyness but mostly from a lack of experience with going out. Never had the right group of friends to go out with. I've had a bit of luck with online dating, though tbh they were below average. Fucked just one girl all my life, made out with two, but 0 pretty ones. Both from dating sites. One was a black fatty, another (the one I fucked) a white girl with a nice body but below average face. Lost my V at 24.
I am only shy with pretty girls though. With average/below average girls I am calm and laidback, don't give a sh!t. I've been on dates with pretty girls who I got to know IRL at uni, one was probably an 8, but the dates were pretty much agonizing.
I have real REAL problems with 'inner game' and confidence. Find it extremely hard to try something genuinely new. I feel extremely stuck mentally. I do feel like I have potential, if I had the opportunity to go out with guys in a somewhat similar situation. I know for sure cute girls have shown interest in me. I'm tall and somewhat good-looking, but seriously out of shape and lazy (not fat, skinny but with a bit of belly starting to show - I know, sounds awful right, it is). I'm unfamiliar with the whole club/bar scene, and I do feel like things could be different there with alcohol involved and stuff.
I'd love to meet some wing men to go out with in Amsterdam. This is such a great city and I NEED to live it up, this is my last chance cos next thing u know I'll be 30 and have fucked just 1 below average chick my whole life.
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finding out that you want to make a change is powerful and congrats on making that step.