Hi I'm new to the fourms and thought i would introduce myself.
I'm 16 and wanting to change the path i am taking in life. Recently something very obvious dawned on me, you only live once. I'm here because i want that once to be then best once it could possibly be. My progress with women has been holding me back recently as the lack of confidence I have from interacting with women is starting to effect other areas of my life that it didn't before. I guess that is due to those around me outperforming me in 'Sarging' as it is known here.
I have read alot of books and material on the topic and have my head around what attraction is to a level which I think is quite sufficient. The problem I have is I just cant seem to integrate it into my personality/general interactions with women. Some of the material has changed me for the worst as I wont make a move at all because I'm scared that if i don't do it that certain way I'll get flat out rejected.
All hope isn't lost at 16 I have lost my virginity and been with 6 women in the past 4 months, from what i have been told I'm perceived as attractive by many women but its never really sunk in. It's definitely not the worst scenario i could be in, but its not where you come from its where you are going and at the moment i'm not improving.
I think that there is a lot from the past that is holding me back.
I also believe that I/or maybe you can't change from a book, you can learn, but only once you try and see it working in reality can you change from it.
I live in Australia, do bodybuilding and attend high school. -N