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(I know a lot of people will disagree with this but I don't care it's my opinion)
The one thing I will agree with you is that the MM is considered pretty
oldschool in the community nowadays so it isn't common for someone
to find the lines cheesy or for a girl to catch you out on the routine.
I've had an experience where I did the "2 best friends" routine
and I failed...twice
That's when I switched over to directgame and funnily enough I've found that going direct in
an approach is far more productive and meaningful
instead of asking some silly questions. Apart from
that we have quite a bit to discuss kids!
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1. Always be approaching - To form habit and maintain your skills you need to always be approaching and getting out there and never backing out of an approach. If you back away from an approach then you are in the wrong frame of mind and need to rework your inner game.
This is impossible. How can you "always" be in the approaching state? Ifyou were always in that state of mind you'd never get around to
actually finishing any sets! I'm just being critical but do you mean,
have the actual "mindset" of being an approaching machine?
What happens if you see a chick you don't find attractive? Must
you approach her too? This segmant needs some citation and
needs to be explained more clearly man
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2. Be Confident - Believe in yourself. Believe that you can have any girl you want. Tell this to yourself everyday. Believe that you are a machine in bed.
Be confident? Do you know how often people say that to theirpeers, friends and collegues to just go out there and "be confident"
and fail in the end? Where do you get confidence? Where does
it come from? You can't just say "Go out today and be
confident!"...the fuck is that about? You can't just
immediately get confidence, you need to
be out in the field everyday and practice, Practice, PRACTICE!
That's the only way you'll ever get confident in your game is
when you're confident in yourself. It's so easy to say to
someone "be confident" you can do this...when he
had no confidence of the prior knowledge in the
current setting to begin with! "Be confident" is
too easy and completely over exaggerated man.
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Believe that you are a machine in bed.
How can you be a machine in bed when you have no
experience IN the bed? Come on, be realistic here.
Believing isn't enough. Competence breeds confidence...
if you have that initial experience to be a sex demon,
you will be good in bed. But it's no use hooking up
with 2 hots chicks and hoping or "believing" you'll
make a good impression with both of them
in the bed. It takes more than that and
that's one of the main things you're
leaving out or not expressing.
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4. Do it for fun, nothing else - Never try to get anything from a girl or push for a result. The second a girl detects that you are trying to get something from her is the second she backs away. You need to be doing pick up because you enjoy it and love having the skills that 90% of the male population don't.
Never try to get anything from a girl? If you're not there to get anythingfrom the girl...WHAT ARE YOU THERE FOR?? And as for not pushing
for the result, thats a little counter-intuitive to what you're actually
standing for in this entire post. What you're saying is that,
approach as much women as you can, have the
mindset that you're a sex machine...but don't
push for the result! You're intentionally limiting
yourself this by telling yourself this. OF COURSE you
want to push for that result, that's HOW you get the fucking
results in the first place!
You don't go to gym, work on the
biceps for 20 minutes half assed and then go home
expecting to see results in a week when you didn't put in
the required amount of effort or push yourself
to achieve that desired increase in mass. It doesn't
work like that man. If you want to get shit done, you fucking
push yourself and get out of that comfort zone and push as
hard as you can until you even outdo yourself and others!
To say that you musnt' push for a result is the most
half-assed apathetic advice to even give people. I'm sorry,
but if you cant encourage yourself to push for what you
desire how can you inspire others to do the same?
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5. Be the person you want to be - Start behaving like, acting like, talking like and being the cool confident player. Don't wait for tomorrow, start today. Your inner perception of yourself will become your reality.
You're inner perception? If I perceive myself to be a turkey sandwhichtherefore I am a turkey sandwhich? Don't you mean to say "You're
inner belief system and the deepest core values of your own mind
must become the outer manifestation of what you seek and
intend to become"? Please explain this a little clearer
as the perception of being a "player" needs to be
explained more critically and elaborated.
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6. Be the sexy guy - To sleep with a girl she needs to be seduced by you. You can't be the nervous dorky guy that is worrying what to say or if worrying if he's demonstrated enough value. Speak with the sexy voice, be the man and lead the way with her. Don't laugh at your own jokes like a dork either.
Since you kinda need to push her into what you want to do in bed,and since you said you shouldn't push girls into what you want
to do...this excerpt is irrelevant in a sense. If you don't push,
you don't get shit.
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10. Be masculine - Don't talk about feelings and emotions or be the guy girl friend she can share her problems with. Be the man, be dominant and let her know you are the boss.
Why would a girl want to sleep with a guy or even be friends with a guyshe cant talk to or relate to on an emotional level? There's no value in that
and why should she invest in you if you're coming off as the nonsensical
non caring asshole?
Last time I checked, women are socially and emotionally driven creatures, they
also need to express themselves in anyway they can towards a mate in
order to really become supercharged with feeling. Women are
also sexually driven and eroused by guys connecting with
them on an emotional level. Feelings trigger endorfins
inside the girls mind, this will
inturn make her...HORNEY for you...and if you
want to leave this out...well that's gonna be fucking
boring ride isn't it?
You don't need to come off as needy or puppy dog but to just
ignore and not give a shit about the girl at all is not just
mean...but a MAJOR turn off.
From what I've read on what you've learnt from the knowledge you've
gained...you need to go back and re-read the game cause it seems
you've inherited some backward logical thinking which can and
will fuck-up your game in the future.
I hope I've given some valuable advice to anyone
reading, I now know why you aren't allowed into that
section of the forum...you're theory is terrible.