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Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 4:21 am ]
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Okay so like the header say I got married too young and divorce relatively quickly after i found out that she was planning on ditching me after a year or so anyways. On a lighter note i introduced to the PUA world by style through his book THE GAME. I always thought that women only went for the guys that were thin fit rich or jock type guys and that people like me didn't have a chance at getting with 9's and 10's. I just recently moved to japan so basically I'm at the epicenter of the Holy Grail for men.

I need help figuring something out I was at a club last night with a couple of buddies and i was dancing on the floor doing my own thing when a 9 and 10 that had been turning down guys all night before and after i met them approached me and we basically did what they call in the animal kingdom the crane dance. I manage to get both of their number before leaving the club on a good note this the first of its kind happening to me in all my life the best part was one was I presumed Indian with the dot not the feather and the other I believed was japanese because of her name. I did the standard dont give out your real name and be vague about your job. what do i do now and how long should i wait before initiating contact through their cell?
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:29 am ]
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get on an invite out to do something, it is just a phone number, don't invest so much of yourself into particular girls, girls give their phone numbers out like candy on halloween, make her smile and you can probable get her phone number reguardless if she is into you or not

if a girls meets up with you or not usually has more to do with the impression you made on her before getting her number rather then how many days you waited afterwards, I say the sooner you contact the better, as long as you are not needy
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 9:18 am ]
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okay so how do i go about the phone game
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:16 am ]
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okay so how do i go about the phone game
don't worry about the phone game, worry about the in person game, and move things forward towards you and the girl you like spending time together and having sex

as previously stated, it is the intitial interaction that is really important, you just want to carry the momentum into a meetup, if you can't get the meetup then she was not interested/comfortable enough with the idea of seeing you again

there is nothing I can give you to say, as it is not about what you say it is about how you can make her feel, and a set of words can be said a billion different ways so it is sub-text around the words that matter rather then the words themselves

just be sure of yourself and what you want, then take action and move things towards reaching your goal

just think of something you want to do with her in person, call her, see if she is free, take her out, when you are out with her, flirt with her and move things towards sex, if she isn't free and every time you call her she is ''busy'' just move onto other girls, as previously stated it is just a phone number, you should be collecting them like pokemon cards singing gotta catchem all, don't put all your focus into specific women to get her to like you, put your focus into finding a specific woman that is what you like (hopefully you like women that like you back)
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:40 am ]
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well here's another hick that i forgot to mention her friend is showing the same signs and they are both equally ten. I sent HB10 #2 a message saying "So have you forgotten about me yet?" i dont know if it was the right move or not but it may work out in the after all im seure they have very busy schedules balancing their boy toys especially on the weekends.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 10:53 am ]
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well here's another hick that i forgot to mention her friend is showing the same signs and they are both equally ten. I sent HB10 #2 a message saying "So have you forgotten about me yet?" i dont know if it was the right move or not but it may work out in the after all im seure they have very busy schedules balancing their boy toys especially on the weekends.
you are already phyching yourself out and acting like these girls are superhuman,

why would you ask her if she forgot about you?
do you think you're not good enough for these girls or something?

think happy thoughts like peter pan, man
they liked dancing with you, had a good time, in the future don't start off interactions with things like

Hey, it's john from xCLUB, remember me?, I was the the...
or
Hey, I know you probably don't remember me but...
or
Man, im sort of ebarassed about calling you so early but...
or
Hey, sorry to call you so soon, but...


don't doubt yourself, assume you are going to fly after you get the magic dust baby, FUCKIN GET ON IT BABY

just say Hey you

then she answers, then you make small talk, then you advertise a meetup, then you ask her out, that is all you have to do, no twirly tactics and fancy tricks, just invite her out and try to not look like you believe her to be the second comming of jesus and you are not worthy, just act like this is normal and it is not a big deal

then follow up as previously posted, also don't stall on specific girls, go out as frequently as possible when you don't have a girl in your life, and meet lots of women, and ask them out, LOTS OF THEM
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:01 am ]
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yeah i figured if it doesn't work out with i can still use them as material for social proof seeing as how they were being sought after all night. although i think concentrating more on the music and dancing than them so i believe i still got a shot.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:11 am ]
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yeah i figured if it doesn't work out with i can still use them as material for social proof seeing as how they were being sought after all night. although i think concentrating more on the music and dancing than them so i believe i still got a shot.
as long as they will meet you, you have a shot, just flirt and build compliance,

if it ''doesn't work'' then they won't meet you, if you escalate and get shut down, nothing is stopping you from remaining persistant until absolute rejection is concrete, as long as you can do so without telegraphing neediness (in otherwords shamelessly escalate while remaining indifferent to the responses, but still backing off when recieving negative feedback, only to remain persistant and try again and again and again until an abolsute solid concrete rejection is given)
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:56 am ]
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Okay so i sent HB10 #1 text with a simple hey you so we shall see how that turns out she has yet to reply so i will report progress tomorrow.
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 11:59 am ]
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quick question when a girl you met in the club asks you to look her up on face book how do you interpret that?
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 12:26 pm ]
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quick question when a girl you met in the club asks you to look her up on face book how do you interpret that?
tell her you don't have face book, pull out your phone, get her number, if no number, then you can assume that girl is not interested in you
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 5:09 pm ]
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well she did give her number even after i said yes so i'm still trying to figure out the game especially because Asia is deep rooted in the tradition when it comes to dating here.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Mar 31, 2012 6:31 pm ]
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well she did give her number even after i said yes so i'm still trying to figure out the game especially because Asia is deep rooted in the tradition when it comes to dating here.
if you got her number and facebook don't worry about it, but if she refuses number and tries to give you facebook, forget that, go for at least the number, you possibly can work the facebook angle, but most likely not, and it is really not worth the effort when you could just move onto a different girl in the club that isn't phone shy
Author:  thedwiggit [ Sun Apr 01, 2012 11:33 am ]
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Haha true that well update on the girls HB10 #1 no reply so im putting her on the Social proof Friend in that club and I believe the same fate will occur to HB10 #2 as well but i may have something with her going we had a small txt conversation but it mostly consisted of helping her recalling who i was so i'm leaning more towards putting her in the friend zone for the club as an angle to get other girls.
Author:  RetiredRodeo [ Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:12 pm ]
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Vet here, spent 3 years in Misawa...

The Japanese women want to fuck as much as the American's do. They won't show it on the surface - that's years of culture in their women... BUT - run different game than the masses of neanderthal AMOG military guys and they'll be yours. Take a local Japanese course - attempting to talk Japanese is hot in their minds.

Overcome the cultural issue, escelate in the clubs and fuck them that same night - it can be done.

Don't overthink things bud.
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