well you can't really force him to do anything, and it sucks when your friends are going through hard times, I suggest if you go out with him, turn the night into a game,
play the drinks game,
just start approaching in tandum, you can make as many retarded rules as you want, like who can say the word cute the most, or you have to do a certain thing, when a certain word or question is asked, or play the 3 words game (only can say 3 words at a time, then someone else has to talk before you are allowed to speak again, and when you speak again, only 3 words at a time), just entertain yourselves, play for drinks,
when you approach, the guy who is approaching picks his target first, the wings job is to make him look cool, agree with him, and stop other people in the group from cock blocking him, if that guy gets a number, he buys the wing a drink, if the wing can get a number while stopping the cock blocks, then you buy him a drink, every set, switch who opens the group and seeks the target, and who is the wing man,
when you are his wing, just help him out as best you can, hit on the girl for him, let her know he is interested in her, if she starts switching interest towards you, cock block her, and re-direct her to your friend, just talk him up, escalate for him if you have to, (just do shit like grab his or her arm, and put it around the other person, then say, there that looks better)
try to just have fun with it, don't worry so much about picking up girls, just go make a habit out of hitting on them for fun without a goal in mind beyond entertaining each other, get him involved
if you really want to get him over being needy, then get him some other options that in his mind are plausible, he might be more willing to move on if he thinks there are more girls in the world that want to fuck him besides the one tease that likes to make orbiters and has no interest in him beyond stringing him along
but since it is likely his confidence and self-esteem are at a low point, you just have to be extra confident and help him out until he finds his flow, just go out with him and help him find his flow
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