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Author:  Haste [ Wed Feb 29, 2012 11:44 pm ]
Post subject:  19, UK, NEVER approached a girl, want PUA advice/motivation?
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Hey, my name is... Haste I guess. I chose it due to my physical ability but suppose I would like to live up to it one day in PUA terms haha

Basically, I'm a 19 year old student and live in a small town in England. I don't know how much people (if anyone) will be bothered to read, but here goes anyway. As mentioned I have never approached a girl in a cafe/bar/club whatever, but my score is 3 due to a small number approaching me! I recently split up with the last one after half a year and *cliche moment* began reading The Game after recommendation from a mate, then became curious about this whole community.

I don't expect the seduction boards to be nearly as magical as the book makes them sound, but it would be good to hear from and share stuff with PUAs. I will also try to expand my knowledge on seduction - it's one of the rare things where I've found myself eager to learn more, even if it means reading a few more books!

Aims

I'm short-ish, skinny build, dress as well as possible, good-looking enough (or so I'm told), friendly if not a bit shy, have a large mixed friend group and enjoy nightlife. I want to be able to get a girls number with ease and prove that I get results for dressing well - making effort. My main problem is the approach...

Cheers in advance for replying/messaging or just taking the time to read.

Take Care,

Haste.
Author:  "The Gift" [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 7:05 pm ]
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Where abouts in England?

Welcome.
Author:  Haste [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:18 pm ]
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Where abouts in England?

Welcome.
In Sussex, but do a lot of travelling to and from London
Author:  Skandi [ Thu Mar 01, 2012 9:17 pm ]
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welcome fellow southerner. I used to live in sussex, If i find my self down there il send ya a PM, take you out :)

As for approaching and approach anxiety, Just run at it head first. It starts with a hello and then a random line of topic you choose. When i first started i would just walk up to a girl and say some shit, just practice opening and bail out. Then when i had a structure that worked for opening i would move on throught the encounter.

TLDR; Just say shit to girls until you find the right shit to say.
Author:  Haste [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 3:46 am ]
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welcome fellow southerner. I used to live in sussex, If i find my self down there il send ya a PM, take you out :)

As for approaching and approach anxiety, Just run at it head first. It starts with a hello and then a random line of topic you choose. When i first started i would just walk up to a girl and say some shit, just practice opening and bail out. Then when i had a structure that worked for opening i would move on throught the encounter.

TLDR; Just say shit to girls until you find the right shit to say.
Awesome. Had so many opportunities to approach tonight, but didn't. Lots of eye contact, but didn't act upon 3 second rule. Yes, PM if you're ever near, thanks for reply :)
Author:  AFC AzA [ Fri Mar 02, 2012 6:01 am ]
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watch some rsdfreetour (owen cook aka tyler durden) video on youtube.
nothing comes easy. after struggle we get result. so get blown out get rejected for greater good.
Author:  Haste [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 3:18 am ]
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watch some rsdfreetour (owen cook aka tyler durden) video on youtube.
nothing comes easy. after struggle we get result. so get blown out get rejected for greater good.
Cheers matey, will take a look once I've finished The Game. I know, I've got to be rejected time and time again before I can approach someone and expect proper results.
Author:  Sonicvega [ Sun Mar 04, 2012 6:58 am ]
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What I do when I am working with someone with approach anxiety . I always have them approach people they are totally not interested in old women fat women to get their confidence up . After a couple approaches we move on to bigger targets. Little by little you realize the approach is almost similar .
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