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| Author: | FearlessAngel [ Sat Feb 25, 2012 7:06 pm ] |
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Hi my name is Jordan ive only ever been with about four girls one gave me a BJ and that is the furthest ive been.... I read the Game and i really liked the idea of self improvement and being able to present myself in the best way i can....so i would like to hear your opinion on what i should do as ive just started?.... Im in the game because im looking for a serious relation ship but i wouldnt mind being able to approach any girl first. Please post what you think i should do first tomorrow im considering the newbie challenge and im now considering doing the stylelife challenge?? Im tired of being the guy who watches an oppurtunity pass or attempting an oppurtunity and feeling like im in when nothing ever happens. |
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| Author: | cola22 [ Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:44 pm ] |
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Yo Jordan, I want to say first of all welcome, this could potentially change your life forever! My first bit of advice that i can give you is to focus on yourself first! Do things that make you feel good, small changes is all thats needed! I would recommend doing some form of physical exercise. I completely understand that this is not from everyone and this doesn't mean you have to sign up to a gym tomorrow, as this can be a very big commitment. However i would suggest going for an early morning or evening jog, or maybe swimming a couple of times a week. One thing that is a good idea is getting free passes to gyms on the internet, they always have them for gyms nearby as they want you to sign up! The second bit of advice i would give is to incorporate a good diet. This is the area where I most struggle as i am not a fan of fruit and vegetables, but honestly buddy this is a effective and easy way to start feeling good about yourself! As most dietitians suggest, aim for that five a day. Eating healthily will also help with your physical activities. The first two bits of advice are simple but effective, typical old cliche but healthy body equals a healthy mind! The next bit of advice i have is the slightly more difficult but if it can be done then major positive outcomes will come of it. I need you to change the way you view certain situations. You need to put a positive spin on everything as this will uplift you personality and make you naturally more friendly and approachable. This can be done with anything from getting rejected, flip it and say well in that case I will get someone better. Psychology proves that positive emotions create positive outcomes! Something as simple as putting on a false smile can uplift you personally but this can also create a smile in return from a nearby person. They final bit of advice I would say is to talk to lots of people. This will naturally improve your social skills, just chat shit about anything to start with just to become accustomed to a scenario where you are talking to complete strangers, then when you are feeling confident and ready try a few routines, just try it, I'm almost sure it will all come together. I would like to leave with; when you are involved with a conversation don't be distracted! Daydreams are for private times, listen to what she says and then respond with something, either funny or a bit more serious however keep within the topic to show that you are capable of a conversation and not fixated on sex. Good luck buddy, let us know how you get on. Peace, Cola x |
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| Author: | FearlessAngel [ Sat Feb 25, 2012 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Thank You |
Thank you for a warm welcome to the community all your advice is value to me so thank you again! |
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