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| Author: | Neo Kerouac [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 2:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Blew it With AFC Behaviour |
I thought id start my first post with a story, my story. I read the Game back in February last year and thought it was awesome, I started online dating and by March was texting and seeing a plethora of women, i think at one point i was seeing six and texting another eight. I wasn't really seeing girls i was particularly attracted to and I let most of them slide and have become "friends" through my own choice with one or two. I Still have Approach Anxiety in the field especially if i am attracted to someone, and here is my sticking point. I joined another dating site in November and within two days had 12 women messaging and texting me, however one woman particularly caught my eye and when we met i thought she was awesome. I used all the things i learnt from the game to win her and we started seeing each other exclusively, however complications arose due to her having children which made seeing each other difficult and I had caught a serious case of "oneism". I think i reverted to my AFC ways, and she lost that attraction that i had created in the first place. She basically told me three nights ago that it wasn't working for her. I am gutted by this and can't believe i blew it, I had been attentive, generous moved things in my life around so that we could make it work and she blew me out, when in the beginning i was doing my " I'm doing you a favour even talking/hanging out with you stuff, she was all over me. I have cut off contact now although i agreed to be friends, not really sure of my next move as I really liked this girl we had so much in common i thought that would carry me through. I now know that game is not for just the start of a relationship but needs to be maintained throughout, but would love any advice on next moves. Do i Just forget her and move on as i am already chatting to some women on dating sites again, or is there a way to salvage this ? |
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| Author: | FCgame [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 6:20 pm ] |
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My advice woud be, forget about the book and go out there and get your own experience; as simple as that. Getting information is good but you need experience that's what makes the difference if you really want to get good at this. |
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| Author: | Neo Kerouac [ Tue Jan 24, 2012 7:46 pm ] |
| Post subject: | thanks |
Good Advice thanks |
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| Author: | cPharaohc [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 2:43 am ] |
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My question is how the heck did online dating work out that well for you? I've tried Match, Plenty of Fish, and OK Cupid with zero luck so far... Anyway, best of luck with your future PUA endeavors! |
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| Author: | Neo Kerouac [ Wed Jan 25, 2012 12:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Online dating |
Hey Pharaoh Online dating is a numbers game a bit like, i guess as I've not done it yet ,day and night game. My approach anxiety is holding me back there. The trick is a good profile and a catchy first contact and blitz the boards POF is a bit lame and tends to have more flakes than others but i have had success as in F-closes there in fact i had two in one day back in March - Personally as i am a bit older and divorced i target women in similar situations and there are sites dedicated to single mums and divorced people, these are extremely rich pickings in terms of contact, and i wasn't looking for a partner when i found the one i am stressing about, she just blew me away as she was at least an HB10, and that is rare online, I really have to get over my AA as once i can approach in public i am sure that my success with women that i actually find smoking hot will improve. If you want tips on Profile and anything else PM me. |
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