anyone else mis-click right after they finished typing everything and lose it all? so frustrating...anyway my names West, 22 male bisexual guy from Washington state.
2 things before we move on: 1. dont read this in a flaming-fairy-with-a-purse voice just because i said i was bi. I hate gay guys who act/talk like that. Its disgusting. 2. Im not saying im bi on here to attempt to get with other guys on this site. I only mention it because it has to do with why im here on my "self help mission".
Speaking of that mission, lets get started: Ive been with both men and women. Im not insecure about my sexual skills or performance. I do have an issue though...seduction and attraction of women. With guys you can basicly be completly friendzoned, and say your horny and think the other person is cute and boom, you have yourself a playmate. with girls...obviously that dosent really work the same way. though i have gotten some results even while friendzoned, they dont even really deserve to be commented on.
Ive had such a bad draw on the female side of things that my friends have even begun to assume im gay. Its gotten so bad that they wont even introduce me to their single female friends but would rather attempt to set me up with any random annoying fag they meet.
Ive been with 5 girls in my life (since middle school) and have even had a craving that was so bad that i once settled for a chubby chick (one of those 5, and thank Odin she had a cute face to help with the embarrassment) just to sate it.
I dont know what it is. I know im masculine (people are shocked to find out im bi when they first meet me.) and while im not extremely fit or anything i know im attractive to females (had admittance of crushes and had girls flirt with me). But when it comes to keeping that attraction, or creating some i seem to fuck it up some how. Ive been told "i used to have a crush on you, but then...blah blah blah i think of you more as a friend now." Ive even had one person i used to be in a relationship with now tell others, with me there, that im "Like the brother i never had" ....despite that shes had sex with that "brother." Its pretty sad.
But thats why im here. to change all that. I want to improve my game with women, fix that side of my sexual life, and feel more confidant about all the sides of my sex life. So any starting advice, or recommended reading from other threads on this site (or otherwise) of would be greatly appreciated!
Currently what i am working on are two girls: one is an EXTREMELY cute solid 8 who ive known for a bit (she was in a club but was dating the club leader when i joined, and they broke up a month ago) whos agreed to go out for sushi with me tomorow actualy and another girl, 18 year old "running start" student at my college...who i have been talking to and found out we go to the same gym. Shes really dorky/nerdy in alot of ways, but rates about a 6..or a 7 without her glasses and her hair down. nice runners build.
Also one girl ive been talking to online...but feel weird even mentioning her as we havent met in person yet. (ya i do the online dating thing on the side.)