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Hey guys 20 year old newbie from England.
So far i have only kissed a few girls and gotten lucky once. Something had to change, and when a couple of mates introduced me to The Game, it really made me laugh how wrong i was in what i was doing.
I've read The Game, Pick Up Artist and Mystery Method, it's about time i got started in the field, the main problem i have, is that even in normal social situations i'm the worst conversation starter in existence, i can keep a it going, but once it's over it's over, what can i do to think stuff up? I constantly think conversations have to flow, like, i won't bring up the fact that i play in a band 'cause i think it's bragging and douche-ish, am i right?
What do you guys talk about? in sarging and otherwise?
Cheers!
You simply have to practice more. Like A LOT more. Starting conversations in a way that looks natural is not really easy, and actually most guys struggle with it. So far i have only kissed a few girls and gotten lucky once. Something had to change, and when a couple of mates introduced me to The Game, it really made me laugh how wrong i was in what i was doing.
I've read The Game, Pick Up Artist and Mystery Method, it's about time i got started in the field, the main problem i have, is that even in normal social situations i'm the worst conversation starter in existence, i can keep a it going, but once it's over it's over, what can i do to think stuff up? I constantly think conversations have to flow, like, i won't bring up the fact that i play in a band 'cause i think it's bragging and douche-ish, am i right?
What do you guys talk about? in sarging and otherwise?
Cheers!
It's just one of those things you have to learn and practice until it becomes second nature. You get to find something that works for you and then you keep using it.
Telling a girl you're in a band is not really bad. It's not about the band itself, it's about how you present it.
I play the guitar myself, so whenever I'm talking to a girl, if we get to the topic of "what are things you like to do for fun?" I could say something like
Me: "Well, I play the guitar just for fun. Not trying to get rich at it, but it's certainly pretty entertaining to get together with a couple of friends and jam a bit. I also like...."
Get the idea?
This may help you: http://www.bosproject.com/index.php?tid=funk
Also, if you want some more help: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=funk
Good luck and welcome to the forum.