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| Author: | redbez [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 4:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | my sticking point |
hey... i need a hand getting over this aspect and one which is starting ti drive me crazy. ok so the past few months ive been going out and trying all this stuff ive read here or on other places. ive got a decent ruitine and i can easily make conversatoin build attraction and all is well. however when it comes to closing i havent a clue on how to do it. i get all up tight and im like wtf am i doing. so wondering if anyone can give us a hand like maybe a few lines on how to number close or what not. just curious on what other people uses. can find heaps on opening but little on closing ahahhaha. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 5:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: my sticking point |
Quote: hey...
First of all a # is not a close it's just a bridge to another time when you can close. In my honest to god opinion a close is either a relationship or for some sex.i need a hand getting over this aspect and one which is starting ti drive me crazy. ok so the past few months ive been going out and trying all this stuff ive read here or on other places. ive got a decent ruitine and i can easily make conversatoin build attraction and all is well. however when it comes to closing i havent a clue on how to do it. i get all up tight and im like wtf am i doing. so wondering if anyone can give us a hand like maybe a few lines on how to number close or what not. just curious on what other people uses. can find heaps on opening but little on closing ahahhaha. #1 Stop putting all this pressure on yourself. It sounds like you got the weight of the world on your shoulders and my guess is you aren't having a lot of fun out there. Remember to relax and have fun...things get easier when you do this. Don't care about the outcome so much! #2 When things are going well asking for her # almost takes care of itself. You two are having a great time so it's easy to say, "We have so much to talk about. I got to go soon but give me your # so we can continue this later." -Just hand her your phone and don't say a word. She'll know what you want. "How can we continue this conversation?" "Give me your #, I totally have to call you later." Don't ask for the # just assume you are getting it. When you ask she has to say Yes or No.... which is 50/50. When you tell her to give you her #, you get a better response rate. |
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| Author: | redbez [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 5:48 am ] |
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cheers bud. yeh im lovng being out there and really enjoying the sarg but yeh need to chill out and stop thinking ahahaha and just do. |
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