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Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 4:38 am ]
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Hey Everyone, I'm just introducing myself here and giving a quick back story. I actually discovered the Game by Neil Strauss a few years ago while I was stationed overseas in Italy. After reading that and Mystery Method myself and a friend used many of the basic methods i.e. attract attention, push-pull, kino escalation, mild peacocking (being American was usually enough to stand out and have girls approach) but never really dove too far into it. Anyways a breakup with a girl I was crazy about (usual story) my inner game and self-confidence was completely gone. So I'm attempting to get things back together and improve my social life again. I can usually meet girls out at clubs, but more often than not they approach me. I like to develop a more direct and natural style as that’s I think that a more effective approach, but am open to field test any school of thought. I'm back in the States going to college on my GI Bill (If anyone has any questions about that or the military in general, feel free to ask) so if anyone has good advice on the college game it'd be greatly appreciated. Thanks for everything and I look forward to learning from everyone I can.
Author:  JSmooth [ Wed Oct 19, 2011 5:51 am ]
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Thank you for your service and welcome to the forum!
Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:38 am ]
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Thanks man, I appreciate that.
Author:  Da_Vinci [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:45 am ]
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Hey Ryan, welcome to the club!
Do you mean by college game, the separate rules that live in the university or not? if so, I am also a student I can give you some tips on what to use and what not;)
Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 3:58 am ]
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Most of my experience with girls has always been at more of a club or nightgame scene, as I posted eariler i'm in college now and I just find it more difficult to talk to the younger girls here versus say a girl I meet at a club in LA. Granted I think a majority of it is inner game issues, but it's still an adjustment for me. Guess all its really gonna take is practice and persistence.
Author:  Da_Vinci [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:24 am ]
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Well, I must say, in college I haven't used the game as my base of operations. I just was nice to everyone as if they were in my high school class. This meant that a lot of girls I thought were attractive got into my friend zone, but at the end I am glad they did. It is very good to have a healthy relationship with girls you genuinely like as a friend.

In college, more then anywhere else, having a girl in the friend zone means squat. They can still be in an 'experimental' mood and ask you to come over because their heater broke down and they needed some heat. (True story bro)

So just be nice, then the rest comes naturally. (Unless they give clear IOI's when you first meet them. Then the hunting season is opened 8) )

Oh yeah, and get into an sorority. It is an instant boost into good friendships. I joined and I did not regret it, one bit, at any time.
Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 4:57 am ]
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Sounds like solid advice. thanks bro
Author:  Da_Vinci [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:02 am ]
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No prob, keep me informed on your progress!:P
Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 5:32 am ]
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I've always gone out of my way to avoid the friend zone, but I can see how in a college enviroment that could end up being more of an advantage.
Author:  Da_Vinci [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 1:18 pm ]
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Simply put: Being in a friendzone in college means that you will get very drunk with that girl very often. Besides, as friends, you will also have very deep conversations with them. This will make you friends for life.

After such a conversation, there will be silence. You will suddenly notice you are alone with that girl, that you are standing outside with only that girl and a beautiful sky. So you say to that girl: Look at that amazing sky. Then you put your arm around her. Kino + Distraction. Eye contact, say something about the stars, or something about how the light plays with her hair. start speaking slower and more silent. She will unconsiously let her head come nearer to yours to listen to what you say. Then, friendzone is broken. First Kiss, epic feeling, even more because you know each other so well.

Just an example of how easy friendzone is broken. (This goes everywhere, even outside college.) And the best is, in college, they don't care! The next day, you wake up next to that girl and wave her goodbye. The next evening it is as if it never happened and you are best friends again.
Author:  Rusty Ryan [ Thu Oct 20, 2011 10:49 pm ]
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True, and if you show and build attraction from the start you can be friends without being placed in the friendzone.
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