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| Author: | comedyjake1 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Fingering my girlfriend |
So, im curious. Im in high school and I fingered my girlfriend for the first time last week and she definately seemed to enjoy it. So this week i tried again while we were making out and she shook her head no. At the time I just let it go but today I asked her about it (curiosity was killing me) and basically all I got out of it was a "I just dont want it to become the usual". guess she dosent want to move too fast, but thoughts? suggestions? |
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| Author: | nikki valentine [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 4:39 am ] |
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its just last minute resistance. regardless of you being her boyfriend she doesnt want to be seen as easy or a slut. you can try doing a freeze out or you can try 60s method and just do nothing at all so that you build sexual tension |
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| Author: | R.C [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:11 am ] |
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Oh brother...there can be a million diferent reasons to that: 1.She's on her period. 2.She didn't manage to take a shower today and might be embarrased. 3.Doesn't feel confortable with where're you're at. ( yo place or whereever you are). and soooooooo on.Belive me , take nothing of it. Just Quote: try 60s method and just do nothing at all so that you build sexual tension to the point where she can't even help herself and won't care about any of the above.
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| Author: | MattJesher [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:24 am ] |
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Personally i wouldnt of questioned it. Act like nothing happened. It might now become a bigger thing what happened. Just act like you dont care. |
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| Author: | TheSlug [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:36 am ] |
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I would highly recommend Tim Ferris book " The four hour body" This has a whole chapter that looks into what you are seeking. |
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| Author: | comedyjake1 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 12:49 pm ] |
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Quote: Oh brother...there can be a million diferent reasons to that:
wow didnt even think about #1! and 1.She's on her period. 2.She didn't manage to take a shower today and might be embarrased. 3.Doesn't feel confortable with where're you're at. ( yo place or whereever you are). Quote: you can try doing a freeze out or you can try 60s method and just do nothing at all so that you build sexual tension
thanks ill look them up
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| Author: | rupertoid [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | not the usual |
My take on it is that maybe you just went at it too directly.. Like they say foreplay prepares for penetration, but I don't see it that way. Sex is another way of communication and you read the other person to see where you go. It's not a set schematic of kiss, kiss harder, hands on tits, rub clit and then, penetrate. Maybe what she wants is a lot of caressing that time. I don't think I'm communicating myself to well here, but last night I was with this girl and we were really on the same level, and it was like a dance. Like contact improvisation. And I really had no idea what was going to happen next. But then, the way I had sex in high school and the way we do it now, aged 35 is way different!!! |
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