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Author:  eyetrace [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 3:16 am ]
Post subject:  Single after 5 years, want to destroy the field
Hey, so without revealing all the drama all at once, me and my chick broke up after about 5 years. Well, she broke it off, and for once I am trying really hard to not try to ask her to take me back. There was extra drama on THIS breakup, and I do believe she wants a split, but also think I could get her back after letting her sit single for a few weeks, maybe shorter. I digress. I really want to get a chance to play the field. I feel I should be able to get beautiful women to want me. I have had it before, but it was those few natural situations, that I need to learn to make happen. I have high approach anxiety, to the point that I can make myself anxious all day with the thought that I'm going to go out and approach complete strangers. Also lack a defined style, persona. Rome in a day, right? My biggest problem is that I feel I am too short. I am 5'7, and women always say they want a tall man. Has anyone used things like lifts. I would hate to get a chick and then once we bang, she notices I'm 3 inces shorter. "You an't no 5'10!", " Yeah, well. You an't no D cup, and your face is ugly without makeup" anyway. Hope to get to know the community better. Started watching some of the video's I found online, but I think this community will help me get the motivation, and personal guidance to sharpen my game and help me bang a hottie. Oh yeah. I also have no car, and will probably have to put a interlock device when I get a new one. But on the bus for 4 - 9 months, maybe longer. How bad does this ruin my game?
Author:  bansario [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Single after 5 years, want to destroy the field
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Hey, so without revealing all the drama all at once, me and my chick broke up after about 5 years. Well, she broke it off, and for once I am trying really hard to not try to ask her to take me back. There was extra drama on THIS breakup, and I do believe she wants a split, but also think I could get her back after letting her sit single for a few weeks, maybe shorter. I digress. I really want to get a chance to play the field. I feel I should be able to get beautiful women to want me. I have had it before, but it was those few natural situations, that I need to learn to make happen. I have high approach anxiety, to the point that I can make myself anxious all day with the thought that I'm going to go out and approach complete strangers. Also lack a defined style, persona. Rome in a day, right? My biggest problem is that I feel I am too short. I am 5'7, and women always say they want a tall man. Has anyone used things like lifts. I would hate to get a chick and then once we bang, she notices I'm 3 inces shorter. "You an't no 5'10!", " Yeah, well. You an't no D cup, and your face is ugly without makeup" anyway. Hope to get to know the community better. Started watching some of the video's I found online, but I think this community will help me get the motivation, and personal guidance to sharpen my game and help me bang a hottie. Oh yeah. I also have no car, and will probably have to put a interlock device when I get a new one. But on the bus for 4 - 9 months, maybe longer. How bad does this ruin my game?
I'm sorry man, but what's the real point of your question? I just don't really get it since you jump into 4-5 different topics at once.

Are you talking about your ex?
Are you talking about the fact that you'll have to take the bus?
Are you talking about your Approach anxiety?
Are you talking about all of it at once?!

One topic at the time will help US help YOU better ;).

Think about it...
Author:  Jacob292 [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:27 pm ]
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Frankly, being short is not a problem. I'm one centimeter smaller than you in height, and that has never been a problem. My last girlfriend was taller than me of about five centimeters, not to mention when she wore heals!

It's all about confidence and inner game!

About lifting weights, don't care! I started doing some weights to strengthen my inner game, but started gaming about two months before I started doing weights. It did make me feel more confident, but lifting weight will not drastically change the way you look until probably six months down the road.

Love yourself, that's the best you can do!
Author:  the touch [ Tue Oct 18, 2011 10:53 pm ]
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Quote:
Frankly, being short is not a problem. I'm one centimeter smaller than you in height, and that has never been a problem. My last girlfriend was taller than me of about five centimeters, not to mention when she wore heals!

It's all about confidence and inner game!

About lifting weights, don't care! I started doing some weights to strengthen my inner game, but started gaming about two months before I started doing weights. It did make me feel more confident, but lifting weight will not drastically change the way you look until probably six months down the road.

Love yourself, that's the best you can do!
Working out is very good for improving inner game as well, but I agree: real confidence is the best!
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