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Author:  pukaface [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 5:11 pm ]
Post subject:  New with Questions??

What's up guys?

Just found out about PUA in the last few days and I've been reading through everything I can get my hands on.

Anyway, not sure if this is the right place to post this, but there's this girl. She approached me at a party, got my number, went home with me that night. Looking back, I was definitely an AFC at the time, and probably still am. I was a virgin and had never really been with a girl before.

I definitely noticed we were vibing at the party and so I asked her to come back with me. Probably got really lucky, cos I hadn't done any kino, none of that stuff, but she said yes. I was a virgin so she came back to my place, we watched TV and I asked her to sleep over. She said OK, but no sex. I thought that was just fine, we ended up making out really awkwardly & she let me feel up her boobs. Ended up going to sleep, walked her back to her car...
I hadn't texted her all week until Friday, she said to come to this party with her, I end up going and she's hitting on every guy she meets, giving out her #, and so I start complaining to the people that are with us. Anyway, the night ends at the hot tub near our place & she is surrounded by a bunch of guys that she invited over, and I was just done, invited her over, to which she said I'll see, so I just told her I was going to sleep.
Got a text from her like 5 minutes later asking if she could come over, so I got her, we started having sex, and I'm a virgin, so I have no clue & I'm drunk. I started using dirty talk like Dan Rose says to in The Sex God Method, but I'm obviously doing it wrong, so it makes her feel awkward, and after like 5 minutes of missionary she stops me and says she can't.

Since then, she's slept over a few times, I've done better with putting my hand around her, holding hands that kind of shit, since I was really worried about being sexual at first. It's still a little awkward, but I think I'm getting better!

Anyway, we have talked about sex quite a bit, she recently said that she feels there is a lot of sexual tension, to which I agree! And as of late, I've been trying to be dominant, but I'm acting kind of like an asshole and definitely coming off like I'm bragging about myself at times. I try not to, but I'm not an very dominant person, still learning there too! She told me yesterday she would have sex with me if I was more humble, and she also told me that I'm not who she thought she met at first. I was definitely a bit of a pussy when we first met.

Ultimately, what I want to ask is what direction should I go with this girl?
I haven't supplicated very much, and I'm not texting all that often, don't think I'm chasing either, but I want more than someone to cuddle and make-out with. Do I have any chance at sex in the future or did I fuck it all up? Lol, am I just an LJBF with minor benefits?

sorry for tl;dr , any advice is much appreciated, and I hope to meet all of you!!

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