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Author:  Unknnnnn [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 5:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Newbie struggles to become #1 PUG ;)
Hi,
Author:  Unknnnnn [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 7:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Newbie struggles to become #1 PUG ;)
come on! noone wants to greet a creepy guy???? !!! I'm gonna shoot all of u's except the person who greets me first!!! Lolz
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 10:07 pm ]
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Alright Unknnnn, let's see if I can help a bit lol. First of all, welcome to the community and the forum.

I read what you said, and nothing really seemed out of the ordinary. You simply haven't learned much about the game yet and need to spend sometime learning some PUA material.

You might be over-thinking things way too much at this point, but if you slow everything down, you can target your learning in a way that will give you gradual results in a considerable short amount of time.

Let's give you some material to get yourself more in tuned with PUA nowadays: http://www.bosproject.com/index.php?tid=unknnn

That's a 6 step guide for building attraction with women, and changing your lifestyle. Learn it, practice it, and internalize it. The results will be good.

This is a free eBook to help you practice your game even more: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=unknnn

Also, read stuff from Carlos Xuma in order to develop your inner game (level of confidence). I have a feeling you're falling short in that area.

These are a list of other books you might want to consider (they have a short summary about their content): http://www.bosproject.com/pua-books.php?tid=unknnn

More to consider: http://www.bosproject.com/review2.php?tid=unknnn

Well, I think that's enough direction for you to start off. Hopefully this material will be able to help you.

Remember to ask as much as possible. People in this forum is pretty friendly overall.

Good luck man!
Author:  DABADWOLF [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  ok bro
alright, first thing u got to do is to focus on dropping the good guy act. i been in the same boat before. people compliment u for ur good manners, others always bring up how well spoken u r. its all nice and the enviorment u build is hospitable
but, girls dont like the nice guy, they want a guy with edge. challenge her show her how little u care. neg, the reason negging works aside from lowering the girls value is because it demonstrates ur not invested in her. u can leave her and go pick up another girl.
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 05, 2011 11:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: ok bro
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alright, first thing u got to do is to focus on dropping the good guy act. i been in the same boat before. people compliment u for ur good manners, others always bring up how well spoken u r. its all nice and the enviorment u build is hospitable
but, girls dont like the nice guy, they want a guy with edge. challenge her show her how little u care. neg, the reason negging works aside from lowering the girls value is because it demonstrates ur not invested in her. u can leave her and go pick up another girl.
There have been countless threads about whether a guy should be nice or have an edge. I think you're missing the point that a guy could be nice and still have an edge. It's all about knowing how social interactions work, and adjusting to the specific situation you're in.

No every girl can be negged, and not every situation requires negging. I know Mystery Method says it, but things cannot be taken so literal when it comes to human psychology.

He should try to improve his inner game and read a lot of material to discover what matches to his personality type. ;)
Author:  Unknnnnn [ Thu Oct 06, 2011 1:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: ok bro
Quote:
alright, first thing u got to do is to focus on dropping the good guy act. i been in the same boat before. people compliment u for ur good manners, others always bring up how well spoken u r. its all nice and the enviorment u build is hospitable
but, girls dont like the nice guy, they want a guy with edge. challenge her show her how little u care. neg, the reason negging works aside from lowering the girls value is because it demonstrates ur not invested in her. u can leave her and go pick up another girl.
I think good guy act is one of my strong points. When I come up to a girl all shy and telling her how beautiful I think she is, I get a very flirty giggle! (although its more of shy guy than good guy)

A lot of different girls who don't know each other actually used the same word to describe me - "Wonderful"!

I donno if that's good or bad... But I take it as a compliment.
Author:  DABADWOLF [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 8:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: ok bro
Bansario, im into push and pull tactics. i notice a lot of higher level guys do bring up adapting to situations a lot, but when ur just starting out i think it has to be a little simpler at first.

but bansario u seem to have a lot more experience on this site than i do and unnkn would probably benefit from ur technique better than mine.
Author:  bansario [ Fri Oct 07, 2011 11:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: ok bro
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Bansario, im into push and pull tactics. i notice a lot of higher level guys do bring up adapting to situations a lot, but when ur just starting out i think it has to be a little simpler at first.

but bansario u seem to have a lot more experience on this site than i do and unnkn would probably benefit from ur technique better than mine.
Push and pull is great. I use it extensively myself, and it gives you great results as long as you know what you're doing (it can backfire on you too lol).

As you mentioned, anyone starting out should be careful when using negging and push/pull too much. The reason for it is because aspiring PUAs lack "Calibration" which is only achieved through experience and time (it's like knowing when to kiss a girl ;) ).

Overall, good advice man :)
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