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What's up guys,
I got introduced to the PUA style back in Feb when I decided it was time to change. While I am still fairly new to a lot of this the number of women I've approached/dates I've been on has gone up. The best thing about this stuff is that it boosts my confidence. It gives me a set of guidelines to incorporate into my own personality when gaming.
My main problem is now how to close a relationship should that one girl arise. The issue I face is that I become complacent and believe I have already won the girl after two dates and a makeout session or something similar. I'm working on this so that she will be the one chasing me at this point rather than me making it no more of a competition for her.
I look forward to the advice I receive and hopefully I can soon be able to give some strong advice.
Peace and let's get 'em.
The best advice I can give you is to work on your inner game and analyze your game. I got introduced to the PUA style back in Feb when I decided it was time to change. While I am still fairly new to a lot of this the number of women I've approached/dates I've been on has gone up. The best thing about this stuff is that it boosts my confidence. It gives me a set of guidelines to incorporate into my own personality when gaming.
My main problem is now how to close a relationship should that one girl arise. The issue I face is that I become complacent and believe I have already won the girl after two dates and a makeout session or something similar. I'm working on this so that she will be the one chasing me at this point rather than me making it no more of a competition for her.
I look forward to the advice I receive and hopefully I can soon be able to give some strong advice.
Peace and let's get 'em.
Think about it. You go on two dates with a woman and make out with her. If a woman decides to see a man more than once, it means she's VERY attracted to him or at least to the possibility of discovering more about you.
You don't need to work on closing women, but on figuring out what it is that you're doing wrong at this point on the game. Why do you become complacent? Are you kino escalating properly? Are you showing disinterest when she's clearly putting herself out there? Are you not spending time with her? These and more questions need to be answered.
If you want women chasing you, you need to do two basic things:
1) Seduce her to the point where she wants to have sex with you.
2) Have sex with her until she can't walk anymore (as long as she's enjoying it, of course).
If you get to do that, and then play things cool (even a bit hard to get), you will have women chasing you around. Remember, people want what they cant have
.Like you said, "Let's get'em"
