Newbie here!
I've been involved in the London nightlife scene in various capacities for a few years now, and although i'm a completely different guy to who I was when I first started, I still bottle it when it comes to the girls I really want, the 9s and 10s!
Im still trying to figure out myself and my strengths, I have F-closed on 4 of 5 holidays that I took this year at an average of probably HB7, partially because I feel like I actually have somewhere to take the girl I guess, I was living alone for a while but have had to move back in with my mum due to finances. I know this shouldnt be an excuse though and I should be going back to theirs!
Aside from this, I can be a bit awkward and uncomfortable in 'normal' social situations, I went out for a friends birthday last night and went to his sisters place first where we all had a some drinks (there were a few 7s, one 8 and a 9.5 there), it wasnt really until we got to the club that I felt comfortable and in my element. I can always feel eyes on me in those situations because I dress trendy and I have a pretty unique haircut and yes ill say it, girls occasionally swoon and guys dont like it so I also feel frozen out intentionally!
At the moment I think I almost exclusively close due to status (in the clubs) and looks, I am constantly complimented by girls and occasionally also by girls I consider 9+s which still comes as a surprise to me!
But I just dont have the banter or say the right things.
If I could summarise what I am looking for it's that I wish I could speak and carry myself infront of 9's and 10's in the same way I do with the 5 to 8's with whom im pretty funny, a bit cocky and mildly interesting for at least 5-10 minutes!
I am literally brand new to the game, I picked up The Game for the first time last week and finished it on my way to the party last night (almost every time I read that book in the last week I felt ready to shark the shit out of the world! Except the ending!)
I have field tested a couple of things and it seems to be roughly working, namely openers and the cube. I just cant think on my feet quickly enough to neg properly though! And my pacing is way, way off.
Oh one last thing, (sorry for the long post!), ever since I picked that book up I feel like the world is testing me! Gorgeous women are sitting next to me on the train, social situations are putting these HB's right infront of me daily! Problem is, I have NO day game whatsoever.
Help!
Carrera
