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noel123
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 Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2007 8:52 pm Post subject: winning someone back ?? help ! |
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whats up guys?!
well i need some help with something. last night i was talking to one of my friends, she was talking about yeah ive been with my boyfriend for six months but im getting over him because i basically almost see him everyday and now we hardly see each other because of work... blah blah
when she said this it hit me like wow thats what is happening with me and the girl in my math class since we almost see each other everyday, i assume she is over me is there anythings i can do to win her attraction back towards me ? school is almost over about 5 more weeks for me, ive thought about just showing up to her house one night to surprise her, ive tried once but she was out so i left her gifts on the door step and the next day she said thank you blah blah blah. so any tips on winning this girl back would be appreciated.
she still calls me to see whats up and stuff!
i was kinda thinking since she calls me everyday or almost every day now.. i was thinking about ignoreing her phone calls during the school week and just talk to her during class and when the weekened comes a long talk to her.
thanx in advance |
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Chase
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 4:20 am Post subject: |
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| be a challenge...unfortunately its going to be an uphill battle. In my opinion do not talk to her on the phone and save all your conversations with her in person. Have a life outside of her and try to only see her 2- 3 times a week. |
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excitement
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 8:28 am Post subject: |
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G'day from Downunder Noel,
From what you write it sounds like your getting some IOIs but your not capitlaising on them the right way. Put simply, your heading straight down the "lets just be friends" road. Yuo got one last chance, this is how to go about it.
The next time she calls tell her your busy and youll call her back.
Call her an hour later and start with a DHV "What a crazy day, my mates just dont understand that i just cant always be with them" ( in a matter of fact voice), then engage in light convo and then say "tomorrow night your coming with me to X, i will pick you up at X". Make sure the convo is no longer then 7 minutes and make sure your the first one to have to hang up.
On the day of the date take her somewhere different, if your going for a meal, make sure its jus something casual and pay for the bill when you go to the bathroom, when she realised what you did say "your shout next time"
Make sure you neg, DHV and build rapport and you'll be fine. Most importantly do everything with confidence.
Good luck, Excitement |
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Paetar
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NEGS? Why? Why now in comfort-phase?
Carpe Diem? |
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excitement
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| Posted: Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Why Neg? Cos he still needs to show hes the prize and that he does not need her. Remember, attraction still needs to be built. It should only be a light neg in a devious way, said with a big smile. That way she'll know he can overcome any shit test thats ahead. |
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