Hi all,
Well, I spent a weekend away in Spain this weekend, to a place full of women, opened so many girls (probably over 150) and guess what? Nothing - worse than nothing! I actually got shot down crazily hard on about 5 occasions - much to the amusements of my mates who look at me thinking im a player and not believing a word I say.

I just don't get it - I can go up to a bird, go direct, ask her some questions, actually be interested in her and she will just flake down on me, sometimes walk off and sometimes laugh in my face.

I don't know who said ploughing through it makes it better, as I've been trying to plough through it for the last 2/3 months since my break up and I'm just failing hard!!

I don't mean to come across as miserable but it's winding me down so much right now. The only success I get is with girls who aint all that (6's) and not the sort of girls I want (mental, a bit crazy, druggies etc)

I look after myself, I eat well, I go to the gym, I run, I have a sweet job - but I'm getting dented hard by all this rejection! I know it's inner game but I don't understand what I can do - I believe I'm good, I believe I'm a good bloke ad I know I'm relatively good looking, but girls can look at me and think I'm the exact opposite - even repulsive!

Any suggestions on how to get out of this rut??

Hey man,

if you approached 150 girls and still nothing, that it is probably because you
fundementally deep down in yourself don't believe that women like you, and that
you don't deserve beautiful women.

This probably comes from a past experience, where a woman (or a group of them) made you believe that she doesn't like you, that you're "less" and that
you don't deserve her.

You probably unconciously look at women as above you, as higher then you
and that comes across in your approaches and your act infront of them.

Signs are probably some nervousness, little bit of anxiousness, hoping she will
choose you, wishing she would just take the lead and take you somewhere...

I can help you with that, I helped a lot of guys with this and it doesn't take a lot.

If you want my help, send me a message under private, and I will help you.

Don't worry, it's free of charge.

Fantom

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do you believe in god?
you may be even singing in a church choir but have a bad relationship with Jesus.
you think this is odd?
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faith is the best remedy for yor situation.

"...but girls can look at me and think I'm the exact opposite - even repulsive! "

Nuff said.

Try indirect then.

Post a picture of your whole self and let us see if there's anything you can improve on your looks.