A relationship is one of the most beautiful things in life but only a few men know how to maintain a good relationship, i will give you some pointers why these men have great relationship but you don't.
Selecting your girlfriend
This is the most important step in any relationship, alpha males don't just settle down with whatever they can get, they spend a lot of time with a lot of girls and whoever has the highest value is worth being his girlfriend. What you should look for in your potential wife are things like:
- Great personality who can make you laugh and have a good time with.
- Respectful towards her family and friends, good bond with her father is a plus.
- Good sex is very important in a relationship.
- Not selfish when it comes to sex and doing things in general.
- Money ( Doesn't have to be rich but a decent job is important )
- High self esteem and positive view on life.
To know these things about a girl takes time off-course but do you rather take things slow and have a great relationship or do you wanna take it fast and in 3 weeks you find out she has a lot of flaws and you are forced to break-up.Keeping your girlfriend
Getting the girl isn't so hard, the hard part is to keep her... I read so many topics in the relationship section where things just aren't the same anymore and the girl loses interest/attraction. Nobody would be in that spot if they knew how to maintain a good relationship like an alpha male would. Here is a list to keep your relationship exciting and fun:
- Yourself, never stop doing what you did before you got into a relationship, if you hang out with your buddies a lot keep doing this, never let her be your number 1 priority, let her join your life, do not make her your life.
- Space, she needs space and so do you, when you buy a new video game and play it everyday it will get boring in a month right? You would buy a new video game.... same with woman. If you give their to much of your time and always text/call her how can she miss you? Woman LOVE a challenge so be that fucking challenge.
- Variety, Try not to do the same things a lot such as watching a movie but mix it up, go for a walk, make dinner together, go bowling with another couple, get drunk and have fun. This way things will never get boring.
- Leading, Woman are submissive to strong leaders/alpha males. They WANT to be submissive due of their nature but the problem in this society is, is that today's men aren't very alpha anymore. Woman and men are pretty equal now a days which took away the dominant part of the male.
Its your job to get your nature back and be dominant and a good leader. YOU decide where your going its her job to follow and she will if your a good leader. When she asks you what do you wanna do today? And you say: "Uhmm i dont know what do you wanna do?". This is poor leading and this is not what she wants!!!!! You should say: "Were going to the park for some ice cream and take it from there". Its okay to get her opinion on something such as the movie your going to watch but give her choices instead of an open question. "You can choose between 1. Borat dictator or 2. Ice age 4". HER: Okay 2. Well lead!
- Boundaries, At the start of your relationship you need to set some ground rules which she can cross but she needs to know it has consequences if she does. Mine ground rules would be: Cheating, lying and respect. For cheating the consequence is break-up, lying depends on the situation but usually a freeze out and respect could get into a break-up as i respect myself a lot and my girlfriend better does to.
- Flaking on you would go into the respect category.
- Lying about an std goes into lying category off course.
- Kissing with your best friend goes into break-up category obviously.
- Alpha Male, You need to be as alpha as you can be. Never show jealousy, be her rock, be positive, look after yourself, strong leading and don't be afraid to walk away if she does not respect you.
If you did all this in your relationship there is no way you have drama or she suddenly stops having interest in you, find the right girl and keep it by being a man!
Have a great day and happy relationships!