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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 5:40 pm 
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Do you...

a) Leave a voicemail

b) Hang up and send a text

c) Hang up and call later

d) Do something I haven't thought of....???

???


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 5:53 pm 
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Just leave it. If she likes you she will text or call you back.

In the future though, text her instead. That way she can reply at a convenient time. That's the whole point in texting.

I really never got the logic of calling girls, especially when they could be busy and you just look needy when if they don't answer.

I think the geography matters actually, the girls in the UK are text gremlins and so am I as opposed to the chatty American gals.

I hate it when people call me.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 6:02 pm 
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I hate it when people call me too.

But EVERYONE tells me to call instead of text.

Seems like very differing schools of thought.

I am an American though in Southern California, where women probably spend 75% of their waking time on the phone, so....


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 6:05 pm 
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I normally hang up, and that's it.

She'll see you called.

Follow with a text isn't bad either.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 6:17 pm 
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They never respond to me.

LOL.

Two numbers, two fails.

I think will go with the hang up and text from now on.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2014 7:47 pm 
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Either just hang up and wait or hang up and send a short quick text to get back at you.

Don't ever leave a voicemail. There's almost no way to not sound like a moron on a voicemail.


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 23, 2014 5:29 pm 
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They never respond to me.

LOL.

Two numbers, two fails.
Well then, they are not into you, just being nice when gave you their numbers.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 25, 2014 8:51 pm 
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first of all dont call in the first place- that is intimidating for some people they just met

just text them

but if you must call them hang up and send a text saying "hey i tried calling you- call me back when you get this"

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PostPosted: Sun Sep 14, 2014 12:39 pm 
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Hi Guys

I faced a similar problem too. I'm new to this forum so let me start by saying I live in south east Asia and am 30 years old.

I met a girl through Tinder on Friday night. First date. We were hitting it off and then she came home with me.
We had a wild time and she left in the morning.
The rest of the day she didn't reply to my couple of texts. Then late at night she said she was sorry to not respond earlier. And then these were her exact words :
"I'm sorry ill be honest. Let's start again by being just friends. The wild sex last night has made me lose my balance. Sorry to be so complicated"

It hit my confidence. The only thing i cld do was banter with a replay the next day with " Hahah, you're such a kid. Not complicated at all"

I want her. What can id next?


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PostPosted: Mon Sep 15, 2014 6:30 am 
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Hi Guys

I faced a similar problem too. I'm new to this forum so let me start by saying I live in south east Asia and am 30 years old.

I met a girl through Tinder on Friday night. First date. We were hitting it off and then she came home with me.
We had a wild time and she left in the morning.
The rest of the day she didn't reply to my couple of texts. Then late at night she said she was sorry to not respond earlier. And then these were her exact words :
"I'm sorry ill be honest. Let's start again by being just friends. The wild sex last night has made me lose my balance. Sorry to be so complicated"

It hit my confidence. The only thing i cld do was banter with a replay the next day with " Hahah, you're such a kid. Not complicated at all"

I want her. What can id next?
Sometimes girls just want to hook up and not see the guy again.

Men aren't the only ones that smash and dash, especially when it comes to tinder

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PostPosted: Sat Sep 20, 2014 8:09 pm 
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Calling is a sure path to failure unless you have a relationship or she just called you a little earlier and you didn't happen to answer the phone.
Texting with some calculated BS can arouse more interest and just show that you don't care a lot.
A subtle game is always more successful...


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PostPosted: Sun Sep 21, 2014 4:00 pm 
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Yeah, I gonna say it, even though a lot of people will get defensive...

From my experience, if you call girls, you diminish your chances of her meeting you.

Not to say it's impossible, the solid phone numbers will of course pick up but the neutral girls are less likely to answer. At least with texting, you can gauge her response and calibrate for the next message if you say you need more comfort or attraction to turn her from neutral to solid.

I lost a lot of girls I didn't need to lose by doing the calling thing.

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