Hey man, look... ( and please read it through )
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In my personal opinion, you dont game a drunk girl unless your only objective is having a one night stand. Since, yes, to correctly game a drunk girl, your energy and stupidity lvs must be equal or similar to your targets, it might lower your value to act like that.. imagine, acting like that, right infront of the eyes of one of the targets friends, the friend that wasnt THAT drunk and did notice you trying to get her...
Plz man, dont lower your value by acting drunk, or being so. Demonstrate to yourself and the group your alpha-ness by taking control of the situation, your actions and decisions.
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but now, your problem is "what should you have done that night."... first of all.
The targets energy lv was high, or at least she wanted it to be (get more alcohol and see if you get higher)... You aproached her, but did some small talk...
You didnt mention if you escalated any kino, which im guessing you didnt, or else the girl would have felt you a bit more ( shes drunk, shes easily aproachable, and since her mind is kinda shutting down cuz of the effects of alcohol, her body will be her main conductor and transmitter for her feelings, emotions and sensations.
So, yes, u should have escalated kino a bit..worked her body a bit more. THen why the small talk?... the girls energy lv was high and you went with a small talk??
Now, having a wing its cool, but seems that your wing sent you to an instant turn down, cuz you aproached the girl again now, showing INTEREST ( the moment you aproached her only to ask her to join you, makes you look, like you guys arent having a good time by yourselves, and you need some one else to get the party started) at least to her drunk girl eyes... Huge DLV when she set ya back to your spot. but its ok, no big deal.. but then you came back to ask her (again YOU ASKED HER) to go take some crazy drunk pics with you. Now that 2nd attempt to get her to your spott was futile. She had already turned you down once, and you went back.
now i wonder, why would you ask her where shes from?... thats kinda like... she doesnt care about your origins, and neither do you care about hers...be real. think if we take it from there, you are gonna end up asking her age and sign.. ok.
YOu started off asking some weak questions, giving her a weak neg, and showed no interest in her, plus you could have escalated kino a bit, like holding her shoulder, hip or whatever. butdidnt, THink that you might have conveyed "not having that much of a great time", might have even seemd like you were tired, bored, or didnt have no interest on making friends.
what I think you should have done is, open her, chat her up, give her big negs, escalade kino ( touch her back, hold her a bit with a lot of confidence in yourself), get her to your spot but dont make her sitt ( remember shes drunk, and being in a still sitting position might make her feel bored, tired or even sleepy)... make her laugh more and more, body rock, huge negs (as you escalate kino further).. then move her again to where she was with her friends, and there, right in front of everybody ask her to introduce you to them, theres no chance of her not coming back to you, because you already made her look like she brought you with them, youre already there... Besides you can always FTC if youre not at your own table, wich gives you an advantage. If youre at your table, with your friends, early on the game, theres no way to FTC... and make her feel afraid of loosing an interesting playful guy like you, instead you brought her, and the one feeling afraid of loss is you.
Make some games to get her to comply to them, hand games, bar bet game, whatever, to keep the level of energy going up, and keep her interested, spend time with her, and make her invest into you. Now for those AMOGS, they dont know your target, neither do you, but you have talked to your target before, you can use her as a jump start to get to know her friends, and the Amogs ( displaying hude DHV by showing everybody whos the alpha guy ). Know its difficult to notices this, but Amogs and obstacles can be seen as oportunities to show them whos alpha, whos the interesting one, whos more socially proofed, who can have fun, who can make friends at ease, that person,my friend should have been you.
try being more adventurous, more confident about negin hard, escalade kino faster, be confident about your touch. Peace! _________________ ".. I will learn all that I've forgotten, I will succeed where I'd previously failed, and even if I don't I wont stop, cuz this is not just about girls, this is about Life "
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