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Fogell
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 Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 2:07 am Post subject: What does it mean... |
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| If a girl friend (from home) asks how the girls are, or my situation with the girls are where im currently living, is that an IOI??? If I have been seeing someone should I tell them to try and DHV myself, or is it better to say that I havent been seeing anyone? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 8:29 pm Post subject: |
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| Kind of depends. I'd say if the girl has you locked deep into the LJBF zone, then she's genuinely curious about you finding a good woman. Otherwise, yes, it's an IOI. If you ARE seeing somebody, then sure, let her know that you've been dating around. I wouldn't say "I'm committed to one person" or anything along those lines. Just, "Yeah, I'm seeing a couple of different ones." Then, depending on her response, maybe throw a curve her way and ask if she's jealous. But, again, that depends on her response. |
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TheMoneyMan1
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| Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 9:00 pm Post subject: |
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Tell her your are seeing different people but nobody special and that you wish the girls more like her, cause you find her interesting.
When you tell her she is interesting most of the time she will ask her why you think she is interesting and that's when you start gaming her, if that's is what you want. |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Mon Nov 12, 2007 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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| I think that's got a good strategy behind the thoughts, but I personally wouldn't say "someone more like you", but more like "they aren't all that interesting." That should still get her to ask what you find interesting in general. Then, you throw out some qualities you WANT in a woman, and she has to qualify herself to you. |
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Fogell
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 5:50 am Post subject: |
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| L.A. Tripp wrote: | | Kind of depends. I'd say if the girl has you locked deep into the LJBF zone, then she's genuinely curious about you finding a good woman. Otherwise, yes, it's an IOI. If you ARE seeing somebody, then sure, let her know that you've been dating around. I wouldn't say "I'm committed to one person" or anything along those lines. Just, "Yeah, I'm seeing a couple of different ones." Then, depending on her response, maybe throw a curve her way and ask if she's jealous. But, again, that depends on her response. |
What if I dont know what zone im in...sometimes I think im in the LJBF zone, and then other times she talks about how she misses me, and how she wants to come to visit me cuz life at home is boring...its been like this for years with this girl (except when she had a BF)...and I know that even when she liked me more than a friend she talked the exact same as she does right now...everytime I try and drop a signal she shrugs it right off, but she also did the same when she did like me more than friend...
anyways, Iunno what to think...I prolly should move on, even though I dont really need too...I dont have feelings for her as more than a friend, however Ive wanted to f-close her for years, so I think that if I just get it out of the way ill finally have peace of mind |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Wed Nov 14, 2007 6:00 am Post subject: |
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I think she's just being a concerned, honest friend. If you don't like her for more than a friend, then definitely just keep her as a friend and move on.
As for f-closing her, I understand what you mean, but you would probably end up, in this situation, messing up what you've already got.
Who knows? She may still give you that chance in the future, once you dramatically improve your game. |
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