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Swish
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 Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 9:44 pm Post subject: wat shall i do? |
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| im in highschool and there is this girl that i like due to her looks she is best friends with 2 girls i am friends with i cant find it in me to talk to her because a couple years back she was in my middle school and she was popular and i was really not and she paid no attention to me im afraid now because my past might might come around and dlv me wat should i do? |
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xxIcexx
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| Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 10:14 pm Post subject: |
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she probably doesnt even remember you honestly, and here is why
so far in college this one class i am the most popular person and sit in the front, i associate myself with the hot girl next to me, and the AFCs that sit nearby, the teacher too, me and him are cool
so what im saying is that i have no clue who the hell else is in my class, i know like 6 people and im not even sure of their names besides my target HB, so with a person with lots of friends, they probably dont even remember you, or cared to acknowledge you back then, and you said its been years!
go for it man, unless shes a complete bitch, she wont mention that you werent popular |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 12:40 am Post subject: |
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| Definitely. Just as Ice said man, more than likely she doesn't even know who you are. She probably had no idea you were even around her back then. Just talk to her AS IN A FRESH START. If you walked up and said "hey" as in 'you should know me already' she may think you're wierd because she may not have any idea who you are. Just INTRODUCE yourself in a COOL WAY. Then, go from there. |
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Swish
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 2:44 am Post subject: |
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| Thank u guys but u dont think there will be a chance my past could come back around and dlv me? |
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L.A. Tripp
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 3:11 am Post subject: |
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Obviously there's always that chance that she might actually remember you, but it's SOOOOOOOO remote it's not worth worrying about.
Even IF she does remember you, IF you are different now, she will see that. |
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pook
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 3:17 pm Post subject: its only a tiny matter |
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stop thinking like this its only making it worse you have gotten yourself in a loosing frame
however if you change your frame in to a much confident one and get out of the shell .,forget about the past and look at how much you have improved until now then whatever you were before when you were in junior high is only tiny matters....
To me Most girls that were popular in middle school are probably not hot shit in high school because believe me we all mature |
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masterPUA
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| Posted: Sun Oct 28, 2007 4:49 pm Post subject: |
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| well... you can keep posting threads like this in the approaching and opening section, thinking about her, and listening to music you would never listen to otherwise, waiting for the "right time" (which will never come) like a doof. or you could spend 5 minutes in the confidence building section, open your mouth, let her know your not mute, and get her to do something fun with you. |
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