ok, before I get into the meat of the subject, this I class as my first real nightgame outing as a lone wolf, I'd been out once before but picked the wrong night to hit the bars (Thursday) but used that outing to lay the ground work for future venues and build up rapport with bar staff which in turn helps DHV for future nights.

I went out after pulling a 12 hour shift at work so I made sure I was Hydrated and also had a red bull to perk me up before heading out.

Instead of writing a story about my whole evening I'll write bullet points of what I deem as useful information.

The long and short of the evening, I ended up in a night club and K-Closed/FB Closed a HB6, I give myself a nice pat on the back as this was my first time:


USE THE LONE WOLF DEFLECT "Friend cancelled at the last moment, I was dressed and ready to go out and said Screw it, I going out anyway"
Out clubbing in 10 years(married 9 years and now separated)
Lone wolfing
She was 12 years younger than me (I'm 34)
She is a good 4-5 inches taller than me (I'm 5,7")
HEIGHT DIFFERENCE KISSING, dont stretch up to her as you feel like a man child trying to do this, get her to come to you or kiss her when she is sat on a chair or in a booth.
Didnt F-Close (had to get back to her kid, doesnt bother me as so do I)
Wanted me to come and F-Close tonight but I'm working/typing out this


1)CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!!!!!!! I cannot stress that enough, stood by the bar, quick scoping around at groups or good targets but overplayed in my head, trying to build up courage to take the 1st step, Just take the plunge.

2)Eye Contact!!! scoping round catching glances, hold their gaze and give a cheeky smile and they smile back then look away and talk to friends, then start looking at you (hey they could be making fun of you but I doubt it) and its a thrill knowing that girls are talking about you.(you know it and so do they)

3)There was the chance of running into a women from online dating, spotted a girl who looked liked her and was with a friend, I went up and chatted them up and made a few good laughs (but werent too hot and the night was very young) p.s it wasnt the girl but it gave me a confidence boost to approach.

4)With the HB, made eye contact while she was on the dance floor, held gaze and sexy smile
she smiled/blushed looking down/talked to friend, kinda pointing me out.

5) changed positions around a pillar so she would have to move to a different spot to get eyes on me, which I'm classing a IOI as I'm removing myself from her situation and making her move for me, which she did do and smiled more.

6) danced with her and her friends (Only dude on the dance floor) light kino escalation and grinding, went for a drink and held her gaze and just went for it and we kissed.... but pay attention to my next point...

7) Dont go all in for the kiss, like they say, play it cool and get her to lean into you and be first to end the kiss making her wanting more.


8)She is also open Bisexually as she told me as much and had her ex-gf/friend with her, pretty cute too, so who knows what will happen if I play the long game




I'll leave it there just now and will add more if I remember anything worthwhile and will answer any questions I can.

Great report! I hope you you keep writing! One thing that works for me when I have a little bit of AA built up, is I just ask 3 or 4 people "Excuse me do you have the time? My cell phone died and I'm waiting to meet someone." It's a question everyone will be nice enough to comply with. And there is no chance of rejection with it as well. It get's you comfortable enough to talk to new ppl, and after that you should be ready to cold approach anyone.

Oh. And you better get a 3 some with her lol

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Thanks for the pointers, I'll have to see how date 2 goes

My other points to make are:

1) Dont get too drunk, I paced my drinking by having water at the same time, enough alcohol to have a little dutch courage but not enough to make yourself a drunken arse = lower your value.

2)If you dont smoke, get a lighter anyway, I'm not a huge fan of smoking but isnt a deal breaker, I was outside plenty of times with HB keeping company and keeping her warm

But I was asked plenty of times for a light by other HB's, so for all you guys asking about accessories or props, I'd say get a cool lighter like a zippo and make it unique so it can be a talking point too.

Wow, I was a lone wolf out a lot of the times too. Now on one hand its nice to have someone to talk to and help build you up at times. On the other hand it sucks because most guys end up hanging back talking instead of approaching, and they hold you back more than they help you.

Good for you going at it on your own, and great job in getting some results. Definitely do not feel bad for doing this or in any way think of yourself as low value for being out alone. A lot of confident men go out by themselves. Using the excuse about your friends and going out anyways was a good touch.

You make some very good points in your Field Report about confidence, eye contact, etc. It sounds like you are learning a lot very quickly. I would say that if you are going out for night game then definitely carry a lighter. I use to smoke but not anymore but I still keep one around for those that do smoke. Quite honestly to most smokers they don't care what kind of lighter you have as long as they can smoke their cig but if you want a zippo definitely go for it but try to find one that is unique as you said for a talking point. Get it engraved even.

The smoking area is a great place to pick up people around a bar. Smokers go outside and they have a good 5-10 minute chat while smoking and most smokers are social creatures. Quite honestly you have a captive audience and offering someone a light makes it pretty easy to get a conversation going if you don't mind the lung crushing foul smelling smoke.

You are obviously off to a good start. Remember to try to bounce from set to set talking to people and making your own fun instead of going back to the bars all the time. Definitely spend time with the staff if you have some favorite places you like to attend. I would walk in my favorite place do my rounds saying hi to the bar staff, bouncers, club owners, DJ, etc. to warm up and chit chat while giving myself DHV spikes being the guy everyone is talking to before going into sets.

Knowing the hired guns there, DJ, etc. can be helpful and can also give you a good DHV spike when you least expect it too. I've been in some of the hardest sets when one of the cute big tittied shot girls that I used to over tip sees me, runs up, hugs me and asks how I'm doing or my DJ friend comes over says hi, and I introduce him, or the club owner. After that huge DHV or preselection spike things got so much easier it was unreal. Not to mention the free VIP areas, shots, cutting lines, and other things. Get to know them, spend some time genuinely talking to them like a person, and they will open doors for you in your favorite venues that can make life easier.

Keep up the great work.

J

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Hey J SMooth,

Thanks very much for the helpful critique and pointers, it makes total sense about the DHV spikes when getting to know the door/bar staff, I think I'll put a little more effort into building up rapport and ground work with them so it pays off in the long run and a zippo is first on my hit list.

Since I started sarging, between a mix of online/offline sarging since January 1st I've f-closed 4 out of 5 but had heavy play with number 5, which I've been surprised about, ok they were maybe 5-6's max but have been very helpful boosting my confidence and to improve my game.

What surprised me was they were mainly women who were looking for something "serious" but were cool to meet for drinks or a coffee, were quite DTF when offered back to mine for a hot drink (made sure my pad was clean and presentable as per guides on here but I'm ex-army so I keep a tidy house anyway)

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For a lot of them, they generally had never orgasmed so fast or so strongly let alone with someone they just met, they can be a little embarrassed about squirting (have a towel handy) and be a gentleman and soothe/reassure them, as they say, Always leave them better than you found them.

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