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So unless you get invited in by club owners and you're there for legit other reasons then you have some serious gaming ahead of you still.
Thanks for the reply... You actually hit on the correct way to approach strip club game in your comment. Until you are granted VIP status and invited to the club (which you WILL be if you follow my advice) you need to have ANOTHER REASON as to why you are in the strip. But, here's the thing...
no one needs to know what this reason is. You can answer any way you want or avoid the question completely! To the cold and bitchy strippers (and you will know who they are) you can just tell them to, "Mind your own business." and reverse the question back on them, "Why are YOU here?" (Deflection is a great communication skill that will help you in all areas of your life, not just in strip clubs, btw.) "Why are you here?" is a standard question that strippers will ask, especially if they are intrigued by you. It will most likely come up in your interactions with strippers so you need to have at least one default answer to this question (assuming the stripper is being warm and nice to you and you FEEL like answering the question). I have given just about every answer to this question that you can imagine, but here are my default answers that not only answer the question directly, they convey all the right sub-communication:
If it's my first time in the club:
"I'm just visiting [insert city] on business. I asked the guy in the lobby of my hotel where I should go to have a good time and they told me [insert strip club] and here I am."
If it's not my first time in the club:
"Because I like this place. It's got the right vibe for me... not to mention attractive scenery [wink]. Besides, normal bars and clubs just don't do it for me. You see that sign above the door? It should say, 'Leave your innocence at the door because in here it's Opposite Day.'"
The key with any answer you give is to make it seem that you are comfortable in the strip club scene and that the main reason you are there is NOT for the strippers... you are there for a good time, first and foremost! This not only sets you apart from other customers it will usually prevent strippers from even asking you for a dance in the first place! You're killing two birds with one stone, now... not to mention intriguing the shit out of the strippers who stop to talk to you!
This is the heart of strip club mastery... INTRIGUE
Set yourself apart from every other customer in the club and use your sub-communication to answer questions before they come up. Demonstrate value and comfort. And, it's not just strippers we're talking about. Be consistent with your answers as you interact with the other staff (e.g., waitresses, shot girls, DJs, bartenders, doormen, bouncers, managers, etc.). Cultivate intrigue wherever you can. The more intrigue you build, the faster you will be awarded with VIP status... and, that's when the real fun begins!
But, that's another story.
And, yes, I came to this forum to help, not sell books. I will answer as many questions as I can, but I know that there is only so much of my 15 years of strip club experience that I can put in these posts. It took me 7 months to get everything organized and developed in my book so I can personally attest to the amount of information it contains. If you don't want to read my book, you don't have to... hang out with me in these threads; but, for those who don't want to wait and jump right in... my book exists... and there's a
60-day hassle-free trial period.
Anyone else have questions? Just ask.
Thanks for the detailed post. Personally, I do not view strippers as hookers like a lot of guys and they ooze sex appeal, I had a fling with one that i met in a night club which was one of the most erotic moments of my life so I am really keen on mastering the strip clubs.
Of course I am speculating right now, but:
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The key with any answer you give is to make it seem that you are comfortable in the strip club scene and that the main reason you are there is NOT for the strippers... you are there for a good time, first and foremost! This not only sets you apart from other customers it will usually prevent strippers from even asking you for a dance
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If it's my first time in the club:
"I'm just visiting [insert city] on business. I asked the guy in the lobby of my hotel where I should go to have a good time and they told me [insert strip club] and here I am."
If it's not my first time in the club:
"Because I like this place. It's got the right vibe for me... not to mention attractive scenery [wink]. Besides, normal bars and clubs just don't do it for me. You see that sign above the door? It should say, 'Leave your innocence at the door because in here it's Opposite Day.'"
Do you not think it is kind of game over just by the fact that you have walked into a strip club and
paid entry fee? - How does that greet you with VIP status by paying entry fee's then reject all the lap dances from the girls and then just end up being
that guy??? (i'am still speculating here)
I have paid for some ebooks in the past and probably tried strip club game 6/7 times in my time, but seems like it would be something I would consistently need to do every weekend. I am not cheap but £15 entry fee every time adds up. of course, that is investment if I do succeed and have some sexy fuck buddy strippers but iI just wonder how long it will take me to get to that level?
The advice on strip game that I have studied are, 2 types of ways:
1) Find out if she is single and then when she asks you for a lap dance, go down to the strip area and then give her the money and then he says "hey, I had a good month in my business, take this money, just tell me more about your bla bla, I don't want you to dance for me"
Then best case scenario, she gives you her phone number or tells you to meet her after her shift. (this is my fav method apart from the whole giving her money part)
The psychology is that you're so different and don't treat her like a piece of meat and you'e generous and not expecting anything in return.
2) Go in with a friend, take turns on being the guy that invited his friend to the strip club, so you would alternate it so it seems that the friend is there only for his buddy to get out of the customer frame.
Then it's pretty much connected with the girls, get deep, and at all costs, not buy a dance. The former is easier said than done. Also, cocaine invites help apparently, but that is not my thing.
I hope your method is something different than those 2? , seems to be more like #2 judging by your response, I will check your website, I really wanna get the hang of it.