Old numbers follow-up:
Nataly CH O2 - no response to 2 texts and 1 call
-POSSIBLE REASONS: club slut, haven't fingered her in the club
Clara Kor O2 - no response to 2 texts and 1 call
-POSSIBLE REASONS: club numbers are flaky, no make-out in the club
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Tuesday
-day off for my dick..
2013 04 10 Wednesday - meeting with friends; Italian girl
Meeting with friends - a new girl was there(6.5 - slightly above average looks, strong personality) - I would be totally able to fuck her in isolation(strong entitlement!). I'm able to communicate with girls sexually using strong eye contact and voice (content is irrelevant). I was able to vibe with her nicely(we had a nice conversation going, totally freestyling it) but this chode "friend" was interrupting it - he was trying to get in and was 'chodishly' hitting on the girl(your english is really good, French language is very sexy) I should probably blow him off (throw some topics on him to occupy his brain and continue vibing with the girl to show dominance). His 'game' looked really desperate to me.
Italian girl - she was supposed to come earlier, came later to my place but she made me work for it (6 texts) which surprised me after how good I fucked her the last time. I was thinking about switching to the Brazilian girl.. LESSON LEARNED: The game is never over! You have to act all the time like a non-needy cool icy motherfucking pimp.
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2013 04 11 Thursday - White Harte - Austin(Eltino); Brazilian girl
MINI0001-02 Street.mov - 3 sets on the street
GOOD:
-although we haven't hooked any of them we did this as a warm up and we were able to stay unaffected(not freaking out when things don't go the way I want after previous successes - not being outcome dependent - being process oriented)
BAD:
-after the direction opener hasn't worked I should have tried something else(plowing) - "actually I just wanted to talk to you, what's your name?"
MINI0006 3-set in front of the White Harte (WH) - about 6-8 min
GOOD:
-we have hooked the set("What's going on there?" opener), both of us went in and made the girls giggle(don't focus on good reactions, focus on taking action - talking to them, expressing yourself, etc.)
-some escalation(handshake and introducing myself)
BAD:
-I accidentally stopped the recording
-no target marking
-I could escalate more non-verbally(laser eyes, getting closer to her, voice)
-we should get their phone numbers! not hoping to meet them again inside(they told us that they are coming in - but they didn't)
WH GENERAL:
GOOD:
-Austin was pushing me hard to open (MINI0011 Laura ES WH - Spanish Agora promoter - got her number later)
-This was my best night in WH(or any other pub) - we build nice momentum and have hooked most of the sets that we have opened(including moving sets). We have hooked about 10 sets and got 4 number/FB closes total in just about 2 hours.
-My game was completely natural - haven't used (almost) any canned material.
-I wasn't viewing this as a pickup(outcome dependence) but rather just having a pint with Austin plus talking to some chicks - this and having 2 girls in rotation helped me to project a friendly non-needy bad-ass vibe.
BAD:
-Pimp harder - we could do even better than 2 number/FB closes each
Randomly meeting my Italian F-close:
-I have tried to open a girl who I think was her friend, the Italian girl was walking right behind her. I clawed her in, said hi and introduced her to Austin. She talked to me for less than a minute before saying "I have to go this way" (to meet her friends) which surprised me because I thought she would stay a bit longer since I have fucked her that morning before she left my place.
GOOD:
-I was able to hold my state after this and kept gaming other girls in the venue.
-Austin came up with a great opener to avoid hitting on her friends - "Do you know an Italian girl named <her name>?" - this made us laugh and put us more into state (insider jokes)
BAD:
-I should go for an instant make-out to show my dominance and create social proof for the room.
MINI0010 Russian engineer with glasses - about 3 min
GOOD:
-opened her with "Do you know an Italian girl named <her name>?" - great opener
(but opener really doesn't matter - if you fully assume it and are having more fun than them ANYTHING will work)
-"Do you work as a bartender?" - "Close... Airbus engineer" - I kept going after this misguess - Actually it made me laugh and pumped my state further. It was a nice natural neg - just threat it as any other neg, talk about something else and stay unaffected after throwing it (accidentally) in.
-good body language - hands in my back pockets
-completely natural escalation(without thinking about it) - touching her on arm
-When I saw her looking away, a sign that she wanted to leave to meet her friends or get a drink, I have prevented it by throwing other topics at her.
-I tried to go for a number close - "What are you doing tomorrow?" - she said "No":) and left to see her friends - I couldn't care less and kept pimpin'.
Swiss girl I met in WH 2 weeks before
-tried to open her with the claw - she walked away(with a smile though), this was basically the only "bad" set in WH. That bitch has no clue that I'm fucking hotter girls than her. I ignored her and gamed other girls. I should call her a dog to pump my state.
MINI0011 Laura ES WH - Spanish Agora promoter - Austin pushing me hard to open her - # close - 9 min + reopen about 3-5 min
GOOD:
-went in with something like "hey, how are you doing", got huge attraction after opening(she could probably "sense" that I'm fucking other girls and also probably saw me talking to other chicks in WH - social proof)
-natural physical escalation(again without thinking) - putting my hand on her arm and back, got really close to her(@3:08)
-leading - making her to take off her glasses(@2:14), moving her (by the hand) from the bar to a less busy area
-Later she met her Spanish friend, started talking to him in Spanish and told me "sorry, wait" - she wanted me to stay. I waited for about 15 seconds and then went straight into another set(two Spanish chicks) that Austin opened to wing him.
-I have reopened her later(Austin saw her and called me) at the bar again. She was there with a guy but I ignored him and kept going. I have asked her who is she here with and she told me it's her friend. He showed respect and introduced himself(I forgot his name 1 second later), I've told him that I'll talk to his friend for a while, he said OK and left. It's amazing how well other people threat you once you get good at game(this guy + other guys literally getting out of my way when I was walking through the pub). Now I don't accept bad behavior from anybody because I'm starting to get abundance of everything in life.
-asking for logistics - Who are you here with? Where do you live?
-Asked her what is she doing tomorrow, she told me she's free after 7 - asked her to have a drink with me tomorrow and she took out her phone by herself. Number close(Laura ES WH), called her she saved me into contacts. I forgot her name so I have asked her how to spell it - she asked me if I forgot her name - NO, I know your name - What's my name then? - Clara - No, it's Laura - Close:)
-She's probably a 7 but I have to see her naked to revise her "rating".
BAD:
-I should probably go for a make-out to make the number more solid - she was attracted to me so much that she would almost certainly go for it.
MINI0011-12 Spanish 2-set Austin
GOOD:
-I took the camera from Austin to record his gaming from a better angle.
-After I found out that one of the girls has a boyfriend I discreetly told this to Austin.
-I have tried to move them(It's too loud in here) but was flexible and dropped it after she told me they are going back to their friends. Then occupied her by changing topic so Austin could get a number close with the other chick.
BAD:
-The other girl(Austin's obstacle) with the boyfriend - I should ALWAYS go for a FaceBook close in such cases!
MINI0016 FB Elena IT - Italian girl with a boyfriend - 4min
GOOD:
-some escalation - touch on her arm, pulling her in
-good body language (hand in my back pocket)
-I was able to get her FaceBook(Elena) and suggest a possible meeting(maybe I'll meet you - she said maybe and smiled) while her boyfriend was ordering drinks. It's also nice to FB close another Italian girl after fucking one in the morning.
BAD:
-I should lean back more and let her lean in
-Do body rocking - moving energetically around while talking to her
MINI0018 Austin - Spanish 2-set # close
-I have been winging him; the girl was a 5 so I didn't go for her number, but if her English was better I could get her # and put her into BS category on my phone(bitches girls to call just to get into the state)
GOOD:
-good winging, I have interrupted her when she was trying to get into the conversation between Austin and her hot friend
-Austin - good plowing
-we have been totally setting the rhythm of the interaction
-she was attracted to me of course
Meeting with my Brazilian girl
Austin drove me to her place(cheers mate). I didn't wanted to fuck her because I needed to save energy for pimpin' and fucking other girls on the weekend. So I have just smoked a joint with her, discussed with her whether you can recreate a human from the DNA without an egg cell(she studies Biological sciences - it turns out you can't in case you are wondering) and when I was on my way out after 90 minutes, she said something like "so you leave like that?" and the smile has disappeared from her face - she should be watching RSD videos about staying icy when things don't go the way you want:) This made me fucking laugh during my way home.
Not fucking her was quite impolite from me, so I gave her a little back massage, made-out with her and made plans to go to a poker game before I left to keep her hooked. This was a great chilled end of my night and I have also practiced verbal game with her(she's very talkative).
(Does this count as Julien's "give her the full range of emotions"?)
LESSONS LEARNED:
-recording: hold the camera as steady as possible, don't accidentally stop recordings
-I could escalate more non-verbally in every set(laser eyes, getting closer to her, voice)
-go for the number close in EVERY SET! (if they have a boyfriend go for FB) also go for a kiss if you have enough attraction
-push each other hard to open and close
-body rocking - moving energetically around while talking to her