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PostPosted: Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:05 pm 
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First off, these are not written by me, credits go to an Anonymous guy, but he's 100% right!

Never, ever hide your interest in a girl, that being said, don't make it obvious.

Be manly, don't give attention when they ask for it. Be a challenge, be mean in a fun way, don't care too much, don't give them all your time, don't give them all your attention. Don't focus all your energy on just one girl.

If they friendzone you, stop talking to them at once.

If they cheat on you, leave them at once and never think back on it.

If you joke around too much and they get butthurt, use "i can make it up to you, I give great massages" or hug her.

Never explain yourself. Apologize ONLY when needed. Never doubt yourself, EVER.

Believe in everything, every fucking thing you ever do. Visualize and plan what you want, do it. Don't doubt yourself, ever.

Confidence will get you everything you want. Confidence works with girls, dogs, interviews, ever for getting friends. Fuck, you can even use it to get away from cops, . Confidence is a virtue which you MUST have. It's a fucking need.

If you want to talk to a girl, go up to her and say Hi, if you have doubts, destroy them.

"What if she laughs at me.." then don't dress like a faggot, don't talk like a faggot and don't act like someone that she'll laugh at. You have a brain, use it, plan, think belieive in your plan, act on it.

Think of what to say, don't just aks everyone, being lazy is easy, being lazy won't get you anywhere. Don't be the person that gets everything handed to him, be the man that gets whatever he wants.

Stand the fuck up and get what you want. Woman want men, not boys with emotions. Woman want men that will change the world. The world wants men that will change it.

Never ask for permission "Do you want to..?" Always assume that they do. Change the question into an order, if they can't or don't want to, they're still going to reject you in the same way. Only difference is you come off as more assertive.

"Do you wnat to do something this weekend?" Change it to "I'm free tomorrow, let's angout and have fun"

Look them in the eye when they talk to you , don't shift between eyes, pick one and stick to it, when the topic changes, or when you start talking, it's okay to break contact for a few seconds, but maintain it when you're talking. If it's something sexual, don't you fucking dare break eye contact.

Smile every now and then every so slyly. Don't know how to make a sexy smile? Pretend you're about to fuck the shit out of her.

Always stand with your feet shoulder length apart. Hands with thumb in the pocket, rest of fingers pointing towards to you your crotch. It's sexual and confident, better than hiding your hands in your pockets or just leaving them out there awkwardly.

When you walk, walk slowly and confidently, look people in the eye as you walk, don't you DARE look at the ground at any time ever.

When sitting down, lean back a little, be casual, spread you r legs a little more then shoulder length, don't cross your arms unless if you want to come off as uninviting.

Laugh loudly, don't laugh at everything. Make her work for your attention.

Don't spam them with texts, Don't call them unless if it's to meet up with her. If she calls, talk to her but if you feel the conversation dying out, end it by saying you have something to do. Lie if you have to, but be smart about it.

If she does something awkward or weird, point it out and make fun of her for it, don't over do it, and make sure it's at least a little funny. Woman laugh easily.

No sudden head movements, move slow, and confidently. Walk as if you own the place, always. Take up space.

Touch her, when you're walking, push her jokingly, move her using your hand on her lower back. Open doors for her, guide her away from water or gross things that she might walk into. Always be on the "dangerous" side of the road, be it cars or sketchy people. Make her feel safe and protected.

If it's cold, give her your jacket, don't ask if she wants it. If she's shivering or says "'i'm so cold' take it off and put it on her. Don't ask don't say anything, do it.

If you think something she said is wrong, TELL HER. Woman respect men with opinions, don't agree with everything. Acutally talk and discuss with her.

If they talk about their ex, give them cold body language and/or quicly try to change the topic. If it's something sad, say this "Hey, now we're having fun, let's not share sob stories" Be propared to quickly talk about something else, always have at least 5 backup stories incase the conversation goes stale. Leave sob stories for later on in the relationship.

Don't settle for woman with low standards. If you're not genuinely interested, find someone else.

Don't do the whole '"LOL FUCK FATTIES AND WORK YOUR WAY UP" no. You only deserve the best. Hotter woman are easier and usually bigger sluts. It's shocking, but true.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 4:53 am 
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Great advises for newbies:

1) Don't be a pussy.

2) Approach.

3)Don't be a dick.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 5:04 am 
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"Don't be a faggot"

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 28, 2011 5:17 am 
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Kudos to "Anonymous" for a solid post :wink:


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This is a money a$$ post. Reminds me of Ace from Casino.

Thanks for the tips.

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PostPosted: Sun May 01, 2011 3:58 pm 
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Really good!


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PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2011 12:29 am 
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Gold.


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PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2011 5:15 pm 
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great post, sums very important info on the HBs

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PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2011 4:55 am 
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i havent posted in a while because frankly, i felt there hadnt been any worthwhile topics. however this is good stuff.

basically:

-women want men that are strong. not just physically but mentally. part of being strong is having strong body language which basically means taking up lots of space.

-part of being strong is being a challenge which means, dont nervous laugh, nervous smile, nervous body language, dont agree with everything she says. essentially just be respectful but do what you want and never doubt yourself. be sure of who you are.

-women want men that can control their emotions. this is were push pull comes in handy. give positive validation when you like something she does, DONT COMPLIMENT HER. just show her that you approve. this is typically done by comparing her to others and saying you like that shes different.. followed shortly by negative validation, a tease, a neg etc. basically, reward her so she feels good then take it away so she wants it more. once shes working for your affection/attention, be a challenge. if you crumble she will be less attracted to you. dont make it impossible, just dont be easy.

i had a lot of trouble with neging/ teasing for a long time. im a pretty attractive male so the majority of women i met didnt put on a huge ego to shoot me down so when i negged it didnt benefit me. however if i give positive validation THEN a neg, it seems to work a lot more effectively


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Perfect thanks


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Awesome post.


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wow, this post is awesome.


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All fantastic points, thanks for sharing.


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PostPosted: Mon Jan 09, 2012 4:43 pm 
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ty for the post :D Very good !!!! :D

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