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nonalcoholic beer.
Non alcoholic beer is like missionary sex. A very bad joke.
Anyway, yeah, women want a leader, to feel safe and all that bs but realistically speaking you getting drunk on a night out, in and of itself, doesn't matter.
If you're a reliable guy in your daily life she's not suddenly gonna go 180 on you because you got drunk that one time.
I've been drunk countless times on my nights out and I've almost carried by women back to my/their place just as often. The only real issue with going overboard on drinks is getting whiskey dick.
But that's me. I don't get violent I just get happy. And less dexterous. And overall less functional.
I feel like what you're explaining here is common sense. Ofcourse if you go to a mildly buzzed girl, while you yourself are completely faceplanted, it won't go well. But that's a matter of you being in a different reality, and not a matter of "DHV". Which is my point.
Go out, have fun, drink whatever you consider will keep you within functional bounds. But don't do it to "DHV" or because women like this or that.