Hey, Never here with a new field report.
Saturday some friends and I went out in Indiana. Normally since we live between downtown Chicago, and
Indiana, I normally opt for going out in Chicago. However we went to Indiana this night.
So the first bar we get to is pretty dead. Live band, older people in their 30's- 40's. We get a few drinks,
shoot a few rounds of pool and move over to a more happening place.
We arrive around 12-1 AM, the energy (to my surprise) was AMAZING. So I flip on the switch, starting to think more socially. Instantly noticing most of my group this night was male, I branch off to preserve value. I walk around survey the place. Chat with a few people. Hit the dance floor, only to luke warm responses. So I decide to mingle with people at tables.
I come across a table of bridesmaids, and ask
"Who got married.
Random girl "Our friend"
"Ohh, that's nice, How long have you known the bride
Random girl 1 " About x years."
"Well I'm Chris. What's your name?"
"Im X" (cant remember name lol)
"Well it's nice to meet you x"
I then introduce myself to everyone at the table. The girl sitting across from where I'm standing pull out her phone to start showing pictures of the wedding. Noticing she is giving the warmest reaction at the table, and is clearly the prettiest. (An 8 at a table of 7s) I position myself next to her to see the pictures. Using Kino to escalate. We chat for maybe 5-10 minutes. Me using Kino, and seductive eye contact the entire time. Eventually I say;
" I really fancy this song. Come dance"
Picture girl "OK"
Me to group "I'm stealing her for a dance"
The group "ok"
So i lead her by the hand to the dance floor(hand in hand)
picture girl "I'm neverous, I cant dance well"
"That's ok, just follow my lead"
We dance for maybe about 1 minute before I start esculating quickly. I start with the small of her back as we dance. Hand firmly placed. Next I go place my hand on her neck, part of my hand touching her face. Next I separate us a little (some push pull) Then when we become close again I start with the neck with one hand. Other hand on the waste. Now she is really close to me, no space between us at all. I maintain some seductive eye contact while I run my fingers through her hair. Next I kiss her neck once. Not a sloppy make out kiss but more a small kiss to give goose bumps. She then looks at me softly, closes her eyes and leans forward. I respond by kissing back. After about 3 minutes of making out, we decide to head back and check on her friends.
When we get to the table. I excuse myself to check on my mates, and grab a drink from the bar. (Mostly because I wanted a drink, but also to DMV, show I don't need to hang around her )
When I get back to the table I say
"Im going to have to get your number before I leave"
Picture girl "Here just take it now"
I hand her my phone and she puts her number in. I leave again for a sec. Come back take her and her friend to the dance floor. Make out again... this time longer and more intense. I'm touching ass and breasts at this point.
"I have to get back to my friends" She protests several times as we keep making out, taking turns pulling each other back into the session. Eventually I get the signal my friends (my ride) is leaving. Not wanting to get stranded I tell her I have to go. I pull her in one last time. As we separate, we receive hollers, and applause from patrons, and bouncers.
"You have my number, hit me up"
"I will"
But then I texted her and got no response.
Wish I had better Logistics for the night, because I could have went for the F-Close with ease.
What I did learn from this, next time I get an K-Close, i will wait a few days before contacting her. I think i was too hasty by texting the next day, coming across as needy or clingy.
Well that's all for now. Be sure to check out my F Close topic here;
miscellaneous/close-sooner-better-vt208244.html
Until next time
Never Knows Best.